@hopeyoufindyourdad: Women have to spend so much of our time, energy, and money on just being safe from men #advice #storytime #feminism

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sam74142
Sam :
And men will claim they have life harder than women.
2026-10-22 21:43:14
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talesforinsomnia
talesforinsomnia :
Pre-🍇 I was in the best shape of my life and even I thought I was hot; Post-🍇 I am up 100lbs and no one even looks at me anymore and given the state of the world, that’s how I want it to stay
2026-10-22 23:04:07
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moonsyne
Moonsyne :
To those who say “just don’t go to the bar” … the danger is everywhere. Grocery store. Doctors office. Outdoors. In our own houses when maintenance is scheduled.
2026-10-22 22:01:15
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maamdadas
maamdadas :
You’ve got it, sis. You’re doing god’s work. I’m cheering for you.
2026-11-04 21:43:40
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tiffyirelandphotography
Tiffany Ireland 🇨🇦 :
I’m fat and perimenopausal- so no man is bugging me to much. But when I was younger and a baddie, we luckily didn’t have social media. It’s super unsafe now! I work with models and I’m always telling them tips on how to stay safe💔👀 Heartbreaking how crazy it’s become
2026-11-05 00:55:39
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sage.the.gremlin
Sage (he/himbo) :
I'm a trans man with 32 years experience as a woman. passing is weird for me because suddenly I'm allowed to exist safely. I can go places alone. and above all other feelings, I'm angry. I deserved that the whole time
2026-10-23 06:25:31
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whitepassinglatina
⋆。˚꒰ঌ Isabella Rose ໒꒱˚。⋆ :
I almost had a panic attack walking to my apartment from my parked car last night
2026-10-22 21:26:48
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cczyn49
randomphantom :
Sometimes I think think that being unattractive is the best thing that ever happened to me.
2026-10-22 23:41:55
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alikat479
Alikat :
Having a 19 year old daughter in university is giving me anxiety that I can’t even verbalize. She lives at home. But every time she leaves the house I worry.
2026-10-22 22:05:25
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villagebelle8
VillageBelle :
It is exhausting, sorry girl 😢
2026-10-22 21:47:40
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sydchochin
SydCho :
I saw a travel hack list one time and it was like “Walmart has 24 hour parking just roll up and sleep, no hotel cost” Like…..sir I probably wouldn’t survive the night.
2026-10-22 21:32:28
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sarah.01750
Sarah :
Have a mechanic check your car for airtags
2026-10-22 23:28:41
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amandaamaranth62
amandaamaranth62 :
my truth: I was harassed by adult men when I was a young 9-13 year old girl. then I gained weight and it stopped. then I lost a bunch of weight at 18 and suddenly I got the male gaze again. now I'm 42 and overweight and don't wear makeup and do nothing to make myself attractive. I have had a few people hit on me but nothing crazy. I wear my weight like a shield at the moment.
2026-10-22 22:20:49
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man_beater1738
hgkitty :
Even at the doctors office I had a doctor sexually harass me. We literally are never safe
2026-10-23 16:01:33
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jordannarants
☽ ⛦𝑱𝒐𝒓𝒅𝒂𝒏𝒏𝒂⛦ ☾ :
I have learned more about what to do if I end up in a bad situation than a man EVER HAS
2026-10-22 21:28:40
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laylatripod
Layla Tripod :
The only time I feel kinda safe is when I’m home with all the curtains drawn.
2026-10-23 00:40:32
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dark_rose565
dark_rose565 :
cant have routines, can't have peace, can't live alone, can't speak, can't dress up, can't dress down, can't walk, can't run, can't be old, can't be young, can't be a "prude", can't be inexperienced, can't have opinions, can't be indecisive, can't be too quiet, can't be too loud, can't be angry, can't cry, can't laugh, can't make eye contact, can't smile, can't ignore, can't engage, can't be fat, can't be too skinny, can't have hair too long, can't have hair too short, can't be straight, can't be queer, can't avoid, be at home, can't go out, can't say no, can't say yes, can't have a drink, can't eat, can't be a mother, can't be childless, can't be smart, can't be dumb, can't be tall, can't be short, can't go to the store, can't sit in a backyard, can't swim, can't exist
2026-10-23 13:23:28
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superbaddiep
Paula ☼ :
I can’t even chill home alone and order food without being scared to open the door for the Uber Eats
2026-10-24 00:10:33
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authorlorenlindy
authorlorenlindy :
I saw a comment on one of the women’s Nike run that said “Not all men are dangerous, but all women are in danger.” It’s sad that this is our reality and instead of holding each other accountable (i’m willing to pretend that they’re one of the good ones for three seconds) they would rather find ways to blame us.
2026-10-22 21:57:48
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sepi_onion
Sophie Manion :
driving home last night and noticed a car was behind me for a while, i had planned out a full route in my head of where i’d drive so they didn’t know where i lived if the car followed me down my road
2026-10-22 22:37:50
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headinthesky72
Meg :
I’m now in my 50s. Nothing has changed in my lifetime. It’s ridiculous, honestly. 💔
2026-10-22 22:03:09
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catladymingo
Auntie Mingo :
a close friend had gastric surgery, and lost a ton of weight. Then, because of how men act, she was terrified she was now "take-able". she had a dude tell her "you'll fit in my trunk now". they can't just let us exist.
2026-10-23 09:36:52
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ginger_gemini_
Ginger Gemini :
I just relocated across the country to go back to school to pursue my dreams. My older male teacher started making inappropriate sexual jokes and harassing me from day 1. I felt so ashamed, degraded and uncomfortable. I almost blamed myself for the harassment. 2 weeks in, it got bad so my friend convinced me to tell the principal who luckily had him fired immediately. I am so glad I was heard, but I realize not everyone feels safe to speak up and not everyone is believed or taken seriously. We are all Jane Doe.
2026-10-23 02:10:20
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candydolphin94
candydolphin94 :
The first time I remember feeling this way I was 7. 7.
2026-10-22 21:42:31
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hiedizzle
Hiedi :
I cry in yoga every time the teacher says "relax, there's no where you need to be, YOU ARE SAFE" I know im not safe and will never be able to relax without fear
2026-10-22 23:49:48
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