xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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Thursday 22 October 2026 22:20:04 GMT
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Mr Entertainment :
This is exactly what’s happening right now with me. Am I 12-year relationship with my Erica. I have ruined everything. We have been getting along a lot lately, but I still feel the resistance here. Need to figure out something because she’s my everything and I can’t and won’t lose her.
2026-10-24 15:49:50
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KC :
My husband was the purser but now the roles have reversed. His walls are up so high now and no matter what I do it’s never enough and he isn’t in this anymore 😔
2026-10-24 11:30:11
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gccyuxch4798gj :
Spot on
2026-10-24 05:26:26
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Bryant :
this is me. My wife of 10 years pleaded for years for attention and I never took it serious til she wanted to leave. We have 3 little kids. She says she appreciates and sees my drastic changes but can't flip a switch or change how she feels. she won't say I love you anymore and always feels like she's avoiding me. She isn't sure she wants to try to repair..
2026-10-22 22:30:54
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💜Ero🩵 :
This. God it creates so much resentment and it’s hard to even see bc all I see is the negatives. I feel so negative and angry but I can’t help it.
2026-10-24 01:26:31
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Ava Morgana :
it actually makes me mad because oh now that YOU are in pain you will change. Not when it hurt me but it hurt you.
2026-10-23 05:47:18
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😶🌫️ :
it feels so validating hearing you say this. I am SO apathetic towards my partner who did the whole 180 and is in therapy, on meds, etc. after I decided to leave because he told me to go find someone else to make me happy. It genuinely feels like a slap in the face after waiting, begging, and putting myself through so much hurt for years when they chose not to do anything. It also feels a little malicious because they are doing it now due to experiencing consequences of their own inaction, when my hurt in the relationship did not matter enough before, ya know? I hate it here. 🫠
2026-10-23 14:23:21
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Barbara Aubrey :
After a decade of constantly being hurt and ignored, every milestone in my life was surrounded by sadness I finally made the commitment to leave. My husband did a 180. I tried to embrace and trust the process but not wholeheartedly because I was constantly stewing with doubt and fear. Because I didn’t embrace him fast enough and heal quicker I was blamed, shamed, and at fault for our failures. Still currently stuck in this vicious circle. Somehow this has become all my fault. Feeling so helpless and tired and misunderstood.
2026-10-23 19:50:29
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Preston Neubert593 :
So I shouldn’t try to show her love anymore? Just leave her alone?
2026-10-22 22:46:48
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Marie :
Ok so he’s the burnout. I’ve showed him change the last 2 months but he says he’s checked out and wants some space. What can I do to get him back?
2026-10-23 07:37:37
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DLl65 :
Is it the same when your partner detaches due to burnout from conflict and anger?
2026-10-22 23:34:15
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Ralnic03 :
This is exactly how I feel. Thank you for posting
2026-10-23 15:31:25
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Eric D :
I am the partner willing to show up, but the reason I didn’t in the past was I was suffering from mental health issues that I didn’t know I had even though she doesn’t believe it I’m under therapy and treatment now
2026-10-23 14:47:40
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rehina ✶ :
is it normal for burned out pursuers to jump into a new relationship 2-3 weeks after the break up?
2026-10-23 04:29:55
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Aevalen :
I just saw my fiance for the first time in about 2 months and I automatically told her she looked beautiful because she's the avoidant right now and I think we left off on a good note
2026-10-22 23:30:58
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pegalyn123 :
Thank you for responding. This dynamic is hard to navigate and I appreciate the support from your platform ❤️
2026-10-23 07:15:06
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cm061221 :
And she is showing up finally just to break up and move on.
2026-10-24 00:01:32
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user8198405950119 :
More people need to get divorced
2026-10-23 02:48:36
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Lori Schneider421 :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-10-23 15:09:39
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