@itsmeanttobree: lol if you’re wondering whether you should text your avoidant…this is your sign: DON’T 🛑 #avoidant #avoidantattachment

caroly🖤 :

I actually wrote him a letter. THEN he texted me saying he loved my letter and it was so special to him. THEN he ghosted me again. 😀

Ben_77 :

Texted her paragraphs, called her, then sent a 5 page letter that I poured my heart into only to get zero response lol. That’s life I guess

Cali :

I found out, the hard way, that the best response is no response. Nothing - like you disappeared from the planet

Jon :

And one day… it all flips and you’re indifferent about them and set yourself as the prize coz you see and felt all the emptiness and anxiety they have to offer anyone who gets close to them

Katelyn :

I honestly feel like most “avoidants” say they are avoidant just as an excuse to leave honestly but you never know I guess

Beanie_Babe :

And then I start thinking to send a hand written letter to their address like I’m Amish or sum shit

Gigi Emojoah 🤎 :

I told that man to go find something safe to play with lol

Nate :

Between writing a letter like I am writing from the war or actual war, I choose to play dodgeball with cannon fire.

mclemoree :

Like how you just do that to me like I was nothing

BigAsh :

Hard lesson learned. I chased. I begged. I cried. I was so physically, and mentally ill. I pinky promise you will heal. You’ll start feeling better. The main issue that comes with that, once you start feeling better, that’s when it hits the later like a ton of bricks. They come back. Right when your head is in a good place. They come right back. They always come back. Just stay guarded. Be ready next time. They know exactly what they’re doing, and you have to beat them at their own game. 💪❤️

RoscoDow :

Dont send a letter ...

McLaren :

I did write a letter and never heard but it brought me peace

Ethang :

Only thing you can and should do is let them avoid you. Someone who’s gonna want to be with you will not only tell you but show you. Because letting someone repeat the same words and not back it up with any action will only turn those words into lies, as there’s no action to prove those words to be true

🧸Rebecca💋 :

Every time I want to text him I just know deep down he don’t care so there’s no point I just keep it ALL in my notes 😭💔

mjugglez :

I just did

diyfykky :

do NOT text them

Documenting My Hikes :

I wish I saw this 2 days ago

Victoria Louise :

Ghosted after 4.5 years ✌

Mary | SAHM 🩵 :

You’re the prize sister, his loss. I know it hurts but don’t reach out 🫶🏻 their silence is them saying they will never value you or your feelings. Just deleted mine after being ghosted, I’m over the childish behavior 🙌🏻

BryanPrime :

Like sending a letter to a loved one before going to war 😭😂

✷c :

going through this rn 😔

TT :

They are the worst. Anytime they reach out now my responses are short and direct.

gliv :

me (I completely self abandoned, and they literally don't care how much they hurt you - or they would've replied)

gabs :

bestdealsdaily26 :

Nah I let this old lady back in after 6 months 2 weeks later and blew it up on purpose and she shut down… bye Bert 😘 no long texts just peace ✌🏽