@monicaumunna: You can become so afraid of being hurt that you start hurting the very marriage you’re trying to protect… I know because I’ve done it 🙃 I would take one mistake my husband made and turn it into a prediction about our entire future. Instead of dealing with what actually happened, I was reacting to everything I feared might happen 😮💨 But a moment isn’t a pattern. A mistake isn’t a prophecy. And my husband shouldn’t have to defend himself against a future I’ve already decided he’s going to create!! There’s a difference between exercising wisdom and living in fear. One helps you see clearly. The other can make you see things that aren’t even there 🤡 Don’t make a good man pay for a future he hasn’t created 🙏🏼🫶🏼❤️🔥
There is a lot of fulfilment and peace that come with self awareness and emotional intelligence like this. Kudos!
2026-11-01 19:52:01
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athlete5 :
Two things can be true, 1- he’s a good man overall. 2- he had an off day where he was being mean for whatever reason and touched on a painful sensitive spot without realizing the damage he was doing bc most people don’t have trauma like that and it’s not his responsibility to understand or deal with the depth of the pain
2026-10-23 13:36:27
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Thusini Woodwork :
You are making perfect sense, thank you and God bless you
2026-10-26 22:41:27
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Ontaros :
So, what did it take for you to finally spot the machinery behind the issue? How'd you find this wisdom?
2026-10-23 02:27:51
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