@unbecomingwithsuzanne: #creatorsearchinsights #moveonandfocusonyourself There’s a psychological phenomenon called escalation of commitment. It’s what happens when we keep investing in something that isn’t working, not necessarily because we believe it’s getting better, but because we’ve already invested so much. A career. A relationship. A business. A version of ourselves we worked really hard to become. We tell ourselves that if we just try harder, give it more time, find a different approach, maybe all that effort will finally pay off. And sometimes it does. But sometimes we’re so focused on making our past investments worthwhile that we forget to ask whether we’d make the same choice today. The time, energy, and effort you’ve already given aren’t wasted simply because you decide to do something differently. And changing direction doesn’t mean you failed. It might just mean you’re finally making a decision based on what you know now, rather than what you hoped would happen then. Here’s a question worth asking yourself: If you hadn’t already invested so much, would you still choose this today? And if the answer is no, what would need to change for your answer to become yes? You don’t have to walk away to stop repeating the same pattern. But you should at least be willing to question it. #UNBECOMING #SelfTrust #PersonalGrowth

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