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From a young age, we’re constantly asked the same question: “What do you want to be when you grow up?” And once you choose something, it almost feels like you’re expected to stick to that decision no matter what. For me, that decision was medicine. I spent years working towards it. I studied hard enough to get in, kept progressing through the course, and academically, I never really had a reason to leave. I never failed an exam. My marks weren’t the problem. And weirdly, I think that made leaving much harder. When you fail an exam or physically can’t continue, there’s a clear reason why you stopped. But what happens when you can continue? When you know you’re capable of finishing, but deep down you’re questioning whether you even want the life waiting for you at the end? For a long time, I couldn’t separate those two things. I had spent so many years working towards medicine that walking away felt like admitting defeat. I’d seen people leave because they couldn’t pass an exam, and in my head, leaving voluntarily somehow felt the same. If I left, I had failed. If I left, I had given up. If I left, all those years of work had been wasted. So I kept questioning myself. Maybe I was just tired. Maybe things would get better. Maybe I should at least finish the degree. Maybe after investing this much time, leaving would be stupid. And that last thought is probably what kept me there the longest. The more time you invest into something, the harder it becomes to walk away. You start making decisions based on everything you’ve already sacrificed instead of asking whether the future you’re working towards is actually the future you want. Eventually, I had to ask myself: If I were starting from zero today, knowing everything I know now, would I still choose this path? And my answer wasn’t yes. That was difficult to accept. I wasn’t choosing between success and failure. I was choosing between continuing down a path I knew I could probably complete, and voluntarily walking away from something I had spent years building my identity around. It would have been easier to finish medicine first and decide what to do afterwards. I could have had the degree and kept the safe option. But eventually I realised that finishing something purely because I had already started it wasn’t a good enough reason to spend even more years of my life doing it. I didn’t leave medicine because I believed I couldn’t achieve the result. I left because I realised I no longer wanted the result badly enough to justify what achieving it required. That decision was not made overnight. I went back and forth over it for years. I convinced myself to stay, changed my mind, questioned whether I was being irrational, and worried that I would regret throwing away an opportunity many people would love to have. It was probably the hardest decision I’ve had to make in my life so far. Eventually, though, I left. And now, nine months later, I can comfortably say that it has been one of the better decisions I’ve made. Not because leaving medicine is inherently a good decision. For someone else, staying might be exactly the right choice. The lesson for me was different. There’s a difference between persistence and continuing something simply because you’re scared of admitting that your goals have changed. We make some of the biggest decisions of our lives when we’re young, with little understanding of what the day-to-day reality will look like. You’re allowed to learn more about yourself. You’re allowed to realise that something you desperately wanted at 17 isn’t what you want a few years later. And changing direction doesn’t automatically mean the time before it was wasted. Those years still happened. They taught me things, changed me, and helped me make a better decision about what I wanted next. The mistake would have been spending even more years chasing a destination simply because I was afraid to admit that I no longer wanted to arrive there.
From a young age, we’re constantly asked the same question: “What do you want to be when you grow up?” And once you choose something, it almost feels like you’re expected to stick to that decision no matter what. For me, that decision was medicine. I spent years working towards it. I studied hard enough to get in, kept progressing through the course, and academically, I never really had a reason to leave. I never failed an exam. My marks weren’t the problem. And weirdly, I think that made leaving much harder. When you fail an exam or physically can’t continue, there’s a clear reason why you stopped. But what happens when you can continue? When you know you’re capable of finishing, but deep down you’re questioning whether you even want the life waiting for you at the end? For a long time, I couldn’t separate those two things. I had spent so many years working towards medicine that walking away felt like admitting defeat. I’d seen people leave because they couldn’t pass an exam, and in my head, leaving voluntarily somehow felt the same. If I left, I had failed. If I left, I had given up. If I left, all those years of work had been wasted. So I kept questioning myself. Maybe I was just tired. Maybe things would get better. Maybe I should at least finish the degree. Maybe after investing this much time, leaving would be stupid. And that last thought is probably what kept me there the longest. The more time you invest into something, the harder it becomes to walk away. You start making decisions based on everything you’ve already sacrificed instead of asking whether the future you’re working towards is actually the future you want. Eventually, I had to ask myself: If I were starting from zero today, knowing everything I know now, would I still choose this path? And my answer wasn’t yes. That was difficult to accept. I wasn’t choosing between success and failure. I was choosing between continuing down a path I knew I could probably complete, and voluntarily walking away from something I had spent years building my identity around. It would have been easier to finish medicine first and decide what to do afterwards. I could have had the degree and kept the safe option. But eventually I realised that finishing something purely because I had already started it wasn’t a good enough reason to spend even more years of my life doing it. I didn’t leave medicine because I believed I couldn’t achieve the result. I left because I realised I no longer wanted the result badly enough to justify what achieving it required. That decision was not made overnight. I went back and forth over it for years. I convinced myself to stay, changed my mind, questioned whether I was being irrational, and worried that I would regret throwing away an opportunity many people would love to have. It was probably the hardest decision I’ve had to make in my life so far. Eventually, though, I left. And now, nine months later, I can comfortably say that it has been one of the better decisions I’ve made. Not because leaving medicine is inherently a good decision. For someone else, staying might be exactly the right choice. The lesson for me was different. There’s a difference between persistence and continuing something simply because you’re scared of admitting that your goals have changed. We make some of the biggest decisions of our lives when we’re young, with little understanding of what the day-to-day reality will look like. You’re allowed to learn more about yourself. You’re allowed to realise that something you desperately wanted at 17 isn’t what you want a few years later. And changing direction doesn’t automatically mean the time before it was wasted. Those years still happened. They taught me things, changed me, and helped me make a better decision about what I wanted next. The mistake would have been spending even more years chasing a destination simply because I was afraid to admit that I no longer wanted to arrive there.

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