@seiveuvxht2: How a Secure Person Handles an Avoidant Who Pulls Away | part 1 #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles #coachryan #relationshipadvice #psychology

Worst.case.scenario 🫦 :

Then what happens when you do leave? They say they knew you were using them or they start building a case against you as why they don’t like you & they still don’t see their low capacity of being emotionally available to you to built connection. Trust your body… if it feels off just start the breakup process.

_phoenix_meant to rise :

Secure people can’t stand avoidants long term

dd425997 :

And then they come back over and over and over, promising the world and then they switch up again. It's hell!

Stewy :

Don’t. Leave them before they ruin your life.

Dlexilu :

All three parts is exactly what happened to me word for word and it’s been the hardest thing I’ve been through. I’m now a broken person, brokenhearted and anxious attached. It’s ruined my life. What’s sad I never loved so deeply and allowed this one person into my life wholeheartedly, which I’ve never done before. I still think he’s my person with the hope, wishing he would contact me. I finally had the guts to tell him to lose my number and never contact me again but at the same time, I am wishing he would show up at my door, knowing he won’t. It’s terrible!!! Slowly I’m finding myself again and I’m hoping I can trust and love as deeply as I did with him.

mcdillonwithit :

🦉💜Whooo🦉💸 :

I’m dealing with stonewalling from my avoidant bf it’s been 13 days of silence, well idk if he’s reached out the last 5 days because he’s blocked. I did all of this and he still stayed silent.

💜🌿🩷Danielle🩷🌿💜 :

I don't chase I attract [Fire] avoidants are unhealed and have no business in a relationship. choose yourself before investing energy in this type of relationship.

Kari :

Married to one for 12 years

The Introvert :

nine times out of 10 there is a reason they're pulling away. if you actually have some observational skills you'll be able to tell that it's not coming from nowhere.