@thebalancetheorypodcast: Pretending you don’t care isn’t the same as being unbothered. @margarita.nazarenko wrote two characters into her book. Jessica overshares, overgives and chases approval. Amanda acts like nothing matters, even when it does. Both are running from the same fear of being abandoned. Real detachment means accepting you can’t control what people think and having your own back either way. Do you see Jessica or Amanda in yourself? Follow @thebalancetheorypodcast for more 💭

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