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my kids dad put them in a vehicle that he drove high and drunk.... its not just my pain... its theirs too... but yet they treat him like he walks on water and like I am the bad guy. I dont understand this thought process.... and i dont know how to open their eyes
2026-10-27 17:14:13
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Rock :
My kids dad SA’d my oldest daughter. My middle daughter still asks about him and expresses she misses him. But he’s in prison, and when he gets out she’ll be over 22. He didn’t hurt my middle child but no way in hell he ever lays eyes on my kids ever again.
2026-10-27 18:56:59
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Roxy :
im glad she told me she was right about him all along!! she was only looking out for me
2026-10-27 15:39:12
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Gina🌺 :
But that’s the cost of love ….being hurt and disappointed
2026-10-27 16:56:50
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Doll :
My mother was never wrong
2026-10-27 15:49:13
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Sea🐳 :
Man these comments are sad but that’s bcuz life isn’t rainbows and sparkles
2026-10-29 05:52:21
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Dulce022 :
Now do a son talking to his father
2026-10-27 16:10:09
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✨️Karma✨️ :
A man who is bad to the mother, is bad to thr daughter. He's not thinking about his daughter when he hurts her mother.
2026-10-28 18:53:30
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Harieth Storm :
My kids father treated my kids like crap
2026-10-28 23:49:33
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J :
Boy would I be different if my parents did this
2026-10-28 05:34:24
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Hello bonjour :
Yesss
2026-10-28 17:57:40
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alexiapesina :
If it’s just petty stuff don’t talk “badly” on the other parent ever, but If they are abusive and a predator I WILL tell my child because I care about their safety…
2026-10-27 16:55:07
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Slaytanic Cousin Itt :
Unless dad is a dr** **ict that is in and out of jail for dr** and g*n charges and was abusive af ...at that point "dad" was nothing more than a sperm donor and we don't need to align our value with who are parents are or who are partners may have been 🫰🫰🫰
2026-10-27 17:43:59
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Sophia :
The things people say to make a quick buck off of the people who did right by the kid or kids while the other parent took the easy way out is pathetic
2026-10-31 09:07:11
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Kat Adams :
I think this applies to the dad's that are bad at relationships but can still show up as a decent father. in that case, completely agree. however, a lot of times it isn't just relationships, hes also a crappy dad and in that case I do believe kids need to understand unhealthy vs healthy so they dont fall into the same patterns. you cant show them love if your allowing them to believe dad's neglect is love. I dont believe in calling him "bad". but "struggling", "unhealthy choices", "unhealthy mindsets", a child understanding that may become self aware enough to avoid falling into the same patterns and learn to recognize the truth. loving the other parent is not mean theyre disloyal, it is only natural for children. and if we try to interfere in that natural love they do tend to go towards the struggling, toxic parent. they can love them, but also learn to love themselves. learn to recognize when someone doesn't have the capacity to love them. learn to cut someone off when its not good for them.
2026-11-02 02:38:36
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Nomish :
My kids dad str@ngled me while I was pregnant in front of them and then str@ngled them so STFU go to h@ll.
2026-11-03 02:39:55
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