@mjharrisspeaks: A lot of men are not smart #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachment #datingadviceforwomen

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leandreasgumdrops
LeAndrea'sGumdrops :
“A lot of men are stupid” [ 👉🏼❤️]
2026-10-23 22:40:05
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arabella.interste
Arabella interstellar :
I have one who SWEARS education is worthless. Please….
2026-11-03 08:44:48
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veronicab362
Nola504 :
You know I think this can include men with degrees. Don't be fooled. I met some men with degrees that were not deep at all.
2026-11-05 01:00:31
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addytop
Addy :
A quick way to find that out 😂😂😂 ask that man to pray out loud 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 please try it
2026-11-04 19:24:19
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user43755031215
BellaRose :
They are arrogant too!
2026-10-23 14:23:13
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_kagenivic
Kagenivic :
This was my ex, he always walked away from conversations that required depth but ask him about cars or watches and there he goes yapping his mouth off🙄. It was emotionally draining
2026-10-23 14:42:11
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kelseyonsocial
Kelsey🫧 :
Quick with the don’t even worry about it
2026-10-23 17:06:05
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quietcornermusings
musings from the quiet corner :
an astute observation
2026-11-04 07:38:33
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plentybeautybysth
Sthe’s Strong 🌺 :
The way they become defensive when you try to have deeper conversation conversations… the fear and nervousness in their faces when you ask harder questions. It be the males in their 40s mainly in my experience 😩
2026-10-24 00:28:11
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kwalk2808
Kirsten :
I love how you articulated this 🔥🔥🔥🔥
2026-11-04 02:17:37
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kristinfromhotyoga
kristin :
I keep trying to tell my friends it’s not that they don’t like you, it’s that they’re SLOW and they need to be w people on their level!! I literally repel them immediately 😂
2026-10-23 19:33:23
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mingleahbell
minglee :
Also if they have a short temper they have the same issues as well because they can’t articulate their emotions
2026-10-23 15:03:44
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dk75532
DK :
Ooh that's why they don't communicate effectively 😅😅😅
2026-11-04 15:12:53
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yvonneflemmings
yvie :
some of them are offended when you try to go into deep conversations with them
2026-10-23 23:58:58
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marina_kemmy
Kemmy Marina :
Finding smart men or Handsome Men nowadays is like looking for a needle in a 1000kg Sack of Sand..
2026-10-25 09:24:08
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norabellemichelle
norabellemichelle :
Their ignorance is astounding.
2026-10-23 16:50:05
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shanellelovemore
ShanelleLoveMore :
The first few words had me cracking up! 😂 cuz yes A lot of men are SLOOOW. I had to realise some men aren’t being assholes on purpose they just don’t have the capacity. So I don’t get mad.. I simply remove myself
2026-10-23 14:22:06
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supershow313
Super⚡️Show :
…….And they AINT THAT GOOD at COVERING it up! 😂
2026-10-23 16:32:20
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thorn.rose01
Cleare :
I find a lot are mad I am smarter than
2026-10-23 21:39:53
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gothicmermaid8
gothicmermaid8 :
I had a man tell me the weather every day and I asked him if he was a meteorologist...that man blocked me
2026-10-23 23:07:11
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bonitaanita_
ochocincowantedme :
they out here slow and unmediated.
2026-10-23 17:56:41
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ozzie62824
DJE1527 :
Also don’t take their nonstop opinion for deeper conversation. If they can’t think past their own opinion- they don’t have much intelligence or growth mindset
2026-10-23 16:11:18
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ashdaves01
Ash Daves :
Now most of them are using iA for comprehension 😩😩😩. You would notice the difference once you get on the phone with them.
2026-10-23 16:46:31
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its_lou.baby
👋🏾 𝓛𝓸𝓾 𝓑𝓪𝓫𝔂 🩺🫀🌻 :
I had this conversation with a friend about a man that is very sweet to me. Almost OVERLY sweet and I told her, he is doing that because he doesn’t have much else to offer. He has no depth. The moment I called him sweet and he noticed I liked it, he took it up 1,000 notches. However, I noticed really fast that he struggles with articulating, so that makes it hard to have conversations that require depth. He thought he could sweet talk me to death but I require my mind to be stimulated.🤷🏾‍♀️
2026-10-23 17:08:22
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nicolemarieindy
NicoleMarieIndy :
I despise good morning texts.
2026-10-23 19:29:06
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