@anxiouslyalej: One of the most loving things you can do is let people pay the consequences of their actions early, while you still have some love left in you. The good girl can't do that. She forgives fast and absorbs everything, and then she wonders why she's so resentful. Killing her is the most regulated, radiant thing I ever did. I stopped being quick to forgive, and I surround myself exclusively with women who say exactly what they think. The third one is the one that made me enjoy my life again, and some of my best moments never make it to the photo dump. It takes so little for a woman to be considered difficult, and every difficult woman I know is a woman of substance. Comment PART 2 if you want the rest of the list. Keywords:nervous system regulation, emotional regulation, good girl conditioning, people pleasing recovery, boundaries for women, self development for women, dating advice for women, anxious attachment, relationship psychology #datingadviceforwomen #womensdatingadvice #relationships #feminineenergy

SleepingSun3250 :

I confronted a person who had a huge mean girl energy towards me (and he's a guy, btw) and he just told me there was nothing going on and we had no problems! People like that can't be for the sake of their lives to be sincere for a bit.

🧸 :

I'm only confrontational to people I intentionally and genuinely love

FORTUNE .I. :

“People don’t remember the sacrifices you made for them as well as you do”

🌈StephG :

Omg I wish I had friends like that

🛡️ Self-Respect Coach :

I know a lot of women that are so uncomfortable that they cannot confront others because they have too many fears surrounding it. The best way isn’t too necessarily be “just be confrontational”, but to strengthen your inner and outer voice. You don’t wanna just straight up tell somebody your whole life story and why what they said, hurt your feelings. You want to be strategic in the baby steps towards being able to confront somebody. You need to start saying no in low-stakes situations so you can train your mind and body to withstand how uncomfortable you will feel in the moment of saying no. Baby steps is essential. If you don’t, you will literally send your body into fight or flight and then your boundaries will collapse.

KikiStylez :

Grey rocking is great, but turning every insult/negative comment into a joke is even better! Laugh and agree to everything someone says to you. They hate it so much! 😂

user4170768253563 :

God I LOVED VE THIS!!!

Janay Frank :

…”while you still have love left in you!” I felt that!!!🙌🏽🙏🏽🫶🏽

Marisa Simonetti :

Yes! Make em stand on business

Happy_Seeker :

#2! I read and want part 2

sneakysausage111 :

gimme my straight forward people. ❤️

trendifique :

interesting. That last point- say more

𝐙𝐄𝐙𝐄 𝐑𝐀𝐃𝐄𝐁𝐄 :

This lady gets it

dianadancesnow :

Just wondering if you have a guy? I decided that I dont want one and I like the calmness.

mznriyadh :

“Babies who can’t talk” true 😂

nasmi uru :

Every word of this.

Gyamfuah 🌸 :

Some confrontational people are bullies

Alexandra :

BirdieBeeFree :

Couldn't be better said, IMO

Eunice Igwe :

I mean

gardengal :

I’m not really sure I understand?? It’s making me ask myself where I stand on that spectrum. And also what kind of people I like. I do admire people with a backbone but I have been around some who make their whole persona about being confrontational and that too is exhausting (and not always a nice trait to be around)

Laitysosa :

Yes because they so clear!

Katia.Dahlia :

That’s right

♛ 𝔖𝔥𝔢𝔩𝔩𝔶 :

this is gold ✨✨

Kayla🩷 :

This times a MILLION!