@shanaijaelie: as someone who was sa by their brother as well, i can definitely see this as a trauma response. that doesn’t make what she did right but that’s just what i think #fypシ #contentcreator #ellianawamsley #jentzenramirez #trauma
i just don’t understand why people are picking sides, this is no video game, these are two real people. both are in the wrong. both cheated, both should take responsibility. but that’s just my opinion and i hope that’s okay
2026-10-24 16:38:06
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tilly.xm :
Idk about you guys but I was 18 speaking to a 50 year old sugar daddies are real
2026-10-24 14:28:11
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𝗅𝗂𝗏 𓏲ּ𝄢 :
genuinely feel bad for both parties, they obviously have so much unspoken trauma
2026-10-24 15:02:35
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Avacado :
I honestly think they both cheated and are just trying to blame each other to save themselves. See, Eliana might’ve been overreacting a little about the girl best friend situation, but at the same time, Jentzen admitted that he liked his girl best friend, and they were a little too close for comfort. I get that they had been friends for a long time, but that doesn’t mean it’s okay to go out with your girl best friend and do couple things without telling your girlfriend. That’s definitely crossing a line. But Jentzen wasn’t the only one in the wrong because Eliana also cheated, and it was with a 40-year-old man. She cheated way before the China trip, so based on the timeline, it sounds like Jentzen cheated first and then Eliana cheated afterward. Either way, they both did wrong, and I honestly think they just need to move on because this whole situation is getting ridiculous, bro. 😭
2026-10-24 13:55:05
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𓆗☠︎︎ 𓂀☽𖤓yhugensૐ☾꩜𓋹 :
the psychology of it people don’t realize there are multiple truths within this reality
2026-10-24 13:23:50
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kay 🌷 :
i’ve heard abt something happening w her brother which is why her n mom aren’t around dad and brothers anymore but idk the whole extent
2026-10-24 14:13:56
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saggy balls :
guys she didn’t say “it’s fine she cheated bc it’s a trauma response” she’s stating that yes this might have been a trauma response but yet it still doesn’t excuse cheating
2026-10-24 14:39:02
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Audrey :
i think people are forgetting how she’s not in contact with any of the men in her life. she’s had a pretty bad childhood. she doesn’t talk to her older brother and her younger brother did some pretty bad things to her when she was younger. she was on dance moms and was involved in a very toxicfriend group. these things influence and inflict trauma and it’s not funny
2026-10-24 20:21:39
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Isabel_Namora :
Especially knowing what happens to her as a child with her brother
2026-10-24 19:55:56
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vwampireluvrr :
everyone meme-ing it as if it’s not actually incredibly concerning
2026-10-24 18:14:05
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sach_hope :
19 and 57….. I was looking for comfort and love I never got growing up….. he wrecked my entire life and ruined every relationship I had
2026-10-24 22:12:59
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gracemurphyy_x :
She’s been through so much poor girl
2026-10-24 16:29:06
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madi <3 :
Exactly like it feels like everyone went straight to attacking her and not realizing that it’s weird that a 42 year old man would want to be with a 19 year old…and that’s exactly what jentzen wanted.
2026-10-24 16:13:25
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4plywhenicryyy :
No bc I have to remember that their audience are majority teenagers honestly it’s just been coming up on my fyp but the first thing that came to my mind was “why are we not more concerned about the fact that this was a whole 42 year old??”
2026-10-24 17:35:31
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daphne🍰 :
when i was 18 i was with a 34 year old. it’s definitely due to trauma. anyway she needs therapy
2026-10-24 21:03:41
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abby ⭒ :
i’m glad you said this because everyone has been shaming her for the age gap more than the cheating itself, like why aren’t we concerned?? and shaming in her comments isn’t a healthy show of concern
2026-10-24 20:46:54
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chloeeeee :
it is. eli has been through somethings and that’s why the texts jentzen showed were often sympathetic. she fr needs long term help.
2026-10-24 15:34:07
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𝒸𝒽𝒶𝓃𝑒𝓁🥢 :
hot take but that’s not a valid reason for her to cheat, BUT it is an explanation as to WHY she did that, doesn’t make it okay regardless.
2026-10-24 20:59:25
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Brooklyn Taylor💋 :
First thing I thought tbh doesn’t excuse it but still
2026-10-24 17:51:15
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𝓞𝓬𝓽𝓪𝓿𝓲𝓪 🦢🕯️♱ :
Yes I was more concerned about this than the whole “drama” everyone was talking about 😭 like it seemed there was more to it
2026-10-24 16:02:31
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Ashlyn :
Yeah but also some 19 yr olds are just crazy I know I acted really wack at the age and so many others did too
2026-10-24 14:52:55
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norss.xoxo :
exactly what i thought but i didn’t want to put her personal business out there but like i see her
2026-10-24 15:17:05
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heidy :
Okay the cheating part it’s wtv but with a 42 year old man that could be her dad the guy is sick tbh
2026-10-24 19:01:07
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abi :
okay but it doesnt justify cheating, the mom helping her do it, instead of helping her leave said relationship she was alr in? No i dont support that, coming from a victim too, just cause something bad happened to you doesnt mean its okay, its a reason not an excuse.
2026-10-24 17:06:56
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☆~NTA ~☆ :
not supporting anyone but him knowing her history and mental health state and doing this is actually evil
2026-10-24 19:14:27
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