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🌙Moonlit Shore System🌊 :
(Assuming your post is referring to npd) Hey. Everyone saying “a narcissist wouldn’t be scared to be one!” “narcissists have the world revolve around them, they wouldn’t care” or any variation of saying a narcissist is literally incapable of self reflection is uneducated. Narcissists are capable of self-reflection, they just avoid it. The fact that you needed an outside voice to be able to question if you were one or not does point to that. It’s okay if you aren’t one, but remember being a narcissist doesn’t make you a bad person/abuser/selfish/overly self-centered. A big trait of narcissism is struggling with self-worth/shame and disguising that struggle with grandiosity, no narcissist likes themself unless they get the therapy and help they need. Please do not get advice from TikTok, everyone here villainizes disorders they don’t understand.
2026-10-24 15:11:07
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7upsuperchunk :
covert narcissists spend lifetimes wondering if they are one or not before accepting it [Heartwarming] friendly reminder that npd is a huge spectrum, psychologytoday and influencers are not a valid sources, but the dsm5 is!!!
2026-10-24 15:17:30
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Marie :
fun fact: narcissists dont worry if they are a narcissist or not.
2026-10-24 14:28:31
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🌸 •Sophiaaa• 🌸 :
Take the shortened version of the NPI online
2026-10-24 15:41:36
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ShipWreckedSage :
If you are worried that you are, the best thing you can do for yourself is go see a therapist who will likely send you to a psychiatrist who can formally diagnose or clear you. Don’t listen to TikTok armchair therapists who will try to diagnose you based off of comments or one post. I was accused of being a narcissist by an ex. I didn’t hide anything and straight up sent my therapist screenshots of many different conversations. She then became concerned that HE was the one exhibiting narcissistic behavior (she couldn’t diagnose him as a narcissist since he wasnt her patient but she could point out his behavior and how it effected me) and actually encouraged me to leave. Sometimes, the one pointing fingers is actually the one displaying the behaviors and they are so unaware of their own behaviors that they throw the blame on you due to your reactions to their behavior. Only a professional can tell you. It’s easier to notice from an outside view.
2026-10-24 15:28:21
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individuald :
9/10 the person calling people a narc is a narc 😂
2026-10-24 13:46:48
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Ivan :
I would say talk to her and why she thinks that. Maybe ask a friend too. If you're struggling u cn always find a therapist.
2026-10-24 15:28:00
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vape cain :
if you’re worried you’re a narcissist, you’re probably not a narcissist
2026-10-24 13:48:09
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sofia☆♪ :
Theres sm misinformation in the comments, ppl with NPD can be self aware, if you're suspecting there is a possibility you have it I think it's best to consult with a mental health professional when you have the chance. NPD is a spectrum, but having some traits does not mean you have a personality disorder, and if you do there is always things you can do to work on yourself, NPD does not make someone inherently bad
2026-10-24 14:32:44
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Opossum Drama :
my therapist told me that my husband was a narcissist. books i read told me that my husband was a narcissist. I told him that according to specific traits he might be a narcissist. then he told me that Im the narcissist because only narcissists tell others they are a narcissist. I doubled up on therapy, questioned myself, read more books, became super self aware of my words and actions to make sure I wasnt hurting anyone or acting like a narcissist. He did absolutely nothing to change his behavior or question himself. He's the narcissist. I am not.
2026-10-24 14:36:22
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juno 📬 :
to make you feel better, narcs dont worry about being one.
2026-10-24 13:49:11
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Bry :
I'm not an expert, so grain of salt y'know? But if you're questioning it and worried you might be, then you definitely are *not* a narcissist.
2026-10-24 14:43:42
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reach high :
You might be but also, if you’re on social media ALOT your ego gets confused. You start picking up the copy and paste habits of everyone around you. All of a sudden you think you’re hot shit, people need to bend the knee to you and nothing can hurt you. The real test if going through a near death experience or a completely unexpected romantic fling with someone you have deep chemistry with but no compatibility—either of those two things will show you who you are
2026-10-24 13:54:03
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courtesycall :
embrace it you get thru life easier
2026-10-24 13:40:41
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Ginabeana :
The fact you’re worried I think you’re good
2026-10-24 14:41:29
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Hebi • Friends With Your Mom :
why do you think you may be? like what traits
2026-10-24 13:29:22
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lain :
you probably aren’t and your sister can’t recognize a narcissist is NPD, not just someone who makes them irritated or doesn’t agree with them
2026-10-24 13:23:27
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Zoe 🤷♀️ :
Narcissists aren’t worried they are one
2026-10-24 13:45:38
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Delilah :
if you're able to question whether you are a narcissist, then you probably aren't
2026-10-24 13:50:04
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Ace :
A lot of the time a narcissist cant even question if they are one or not bcs they believe they are perfect nothing they do can be wrong your sister is probably the narcissist and projecting it on you bcs thats what they do😭
2026-10-24 13:44:57
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𝐼𝓉𝓏𝒶 🌌 :
I wish I could pin’s comments so everyone can see this but thank you for all the comments! It’s making me feel a lot better because from what I’ve always heard narcissists hurt people and I don’t want to be that kind of person. And also idk if my sister is a narcissist or not but she does have bpd and has for years been telling me I’m a narcissist (probably since I was 11 or 12 and I’m 16 now) hence why I’ve been nervous that I am. But once again thank you for all the comments I appreciate it!
2026-10-24 14:02:28
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ReeBooDan :
We all have at least one narcissistic trait
2026-10-24 15:48:57
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olivia :
A narcissist wouldn’t care
2026-10-24 14:55:35
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Aimee :
sweetie a narcissist is not worried and will be in complete denial the fact that you are worried and don't want to be one sounds to us like a clear sign you're not but may want to keep an eye on your sister
2026-10-24 14:59:46
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7upsuperchunk :
"if you think youre a narc youre not" is a huge myth, one of the worst ones out there, because it keeps the coverts running rampant.
2026-10-24 15:19:18
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