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lovelygirl222_ :

Nahhh don’t hook up without commitment. Thats ur first issue

Danielle Chanel :

I did this, the healthy version, and he took it as me demanding more and he jumped to me wanting to marry and move in with him 😅 I just asked how we be intentional about seeing each other bc we’re both becoming busy! It went left after that. 😂😩

User9876553311467367 :

Nope, that person is not a safe person thats why

velveteen_wolf :

Please don’t give women this advice. This can turn into a spiral loop for the feminine person in this relationship and if the woman is telling the man what to do she is shifting to the masculine look be role. A better strategy is to not accept last minute or less planned dates. If he call less than what is comfortable for her nervous system she must kindly decline “I’d love to but I already made other plans since I hadn’t heard from you”

que.linda.bonita :

this video is targeted for a very specific insecure, anxious type of woman who can't articulate herself in those moments. I get this video bc I am like this.

Retiredlife64🇨🇦 :

Nahhhhh - he hasn’t connected with me in 2 weeks after months of dating? There isn’t a dinner meet up after that. Period.

shannerrbananerr :

Noooo I’m just not one to play stupid lol

Jacqui Birth Inspirations :

I think he needs to look at himself too.

🌻Katie🇨🇦 :

I’ve learned how to listen to my body. If my body is feeling these things while I’m across from a human like this. I know I shouldn’t be there. Why is this person causing this in me? They shouldn’t be.

Sarah L 💙🇺🇸 :

You just described me. Also we look so much alike I genuinely thought I accidentally turned my camera on

nutzer3748353 :

Yeah. I did this. And still got dumped and now I feel like he didnt took me serious because I was to easy going

Sheryl Young :

its the risk of rejection that causes conflict in one's mind too.

lynett.eu :

i literally felt sth shift inside of me as i watched this w o w

GodSavetheBag :

I just break up with them at that point. Having to communicate any of those things means the guys doesn’t want you at all

María José Dominguez :

I knew what I have to said it!! But I waited to be ready and then bummm bye

Issi :

I'm ok with that but you have also to realize that some man aren't ready for those type of conversation and some of them are intentionally causing u anxiety and insecurity because u told this is a part of your past trauma. so don't settle for crumbs because they made u think u r overreacting about their bad behavior.

okcmercyme :

I feel called out! But thank you!!

sunshyne818 :

Vicks :

Bad advice. Be mindful and back off. Give less and they will want more if they are your person

janne_grhm :

No he hated me being secure he wanted me to be toxic and scream at him etc that’s so crazy

The Herbal Priestess :

Holy this is wild 🙌

Safin Bosch :

thank you

Lena Love :

Thank you

Annie :

naaah block them and find another hobby

Dani December❄️ :

You are staring into my soul 😳