I used to be homophobic, turns out I was just denying who I really am😭
2026-10-25 04:06:21
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Scorpio :
I grew up in a deeply homophobic and misogynistic society where queer words were used as insults, and every child grew up learning to use them. I was homophobic too, not because I hated people loving each other, but because I was taught to be. I still remember falling for a girl in grade 7, crying myself to sleep and praying to become a boy the next morning just so I could be with her. I didn’t even understand why I felt that way. It took me eight years to realize what those feelings meant. Even now, despite knowing I love women too, internalized homophobia and misogyny make it hard for me to imagine being with one. Sometimes I wonder who I could’ve been and who I could’ve loved if society had never taught me to hate what I felt.
2026-10-25 13:43:04
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abby :
woohoo over here
2026-10-24 20:43:28
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✩°。𝘾𝘼𝙄𝙍𝘼 :
ik a girl who used to have a crush on me and is now homophobic…
2026-10-25 04:26:28
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maddie :
I used to be that girl
2026-10-25 01:10:37
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Kussssmita💋 :
OR they are jealous of not receiving the same kind of love that the queer community have. Same-sex relationship always have more depth than a heterosexual one. Whether it's the way love is expressed or even emotional intelligence.
2026-10-25 12:26:04
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a🍵 :
that was once me 👀👀👀
2026-10-25 04:23:12
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-niyah :
I only used to be homophobic cuz I have a homophobic family and was super in denial and thought that if I gaslit myself into hating it it would go away 😭 every single time I said something homophobic the guilt and uncomfortable feeling would keep me up for weeks
2026-10-25 06:28:08
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bella :
i used to be projecting kinda. i didn’t know it about myself yet…the enemy was me.
2026-10-25 03:50:17
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Ritzcrackers :
Most of them gotta be protecting bcs I met a closeted girl before , she’d act homophobic all the time but she’d treat me amazing when we’re alone
2026-10-25 00:51:23
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