Aubrey Matthesius | Chill Mom
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Saturday 24 October 2026 23:11:20 GMT
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user2661185156442 :
Naw, mom’s exhaustion is way more intense. Dad is tired, sure, but he ain’t tired and leaking lochia and with blistered nipples and the myriad of other physical healing issues women have. The rest, fine lol. But I’m 💀 on that hill, bc it’s just the truth.
2026-10-25 03:12:43
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Jackie 💕💁🏼♀️🎤 👶🏼 :
The best advice I have heard is: “your marriage involves you, but is not primarily about you. Your marriage involves happiness, but does not revolve around happiness.” For us - what worked was taking newborn overnight shifts. I took 7pm-2am. I breastfed and took full care of baby while hubby slept. Then he took 2am-7am shift with baby, pumped bottle or formula it didn’t matter - I was out of the picture. It allowed for bonding time for them too. During this time: I slept in a guest room or couch with ear plugs: no interruptions, just sleep, and I pumped once during this time. But this way: both of us were guaranteed a 5hr stretch of sleep regardless of how baby was sleeping.
2026-10-25 02:10:57
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Kayla :
I love you so much for all of these videos. Please don’t ever stop. Thank you ❤️
2026-10-30 23:42:06
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Matilda Fenton | MATFAN :
The lens of grace line is beautiful. Looking for ways to serve one another instead of keeping score is exactly how a marriage thrives in that season.
2026-10-31 16:45:24
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Mrs.Hunkerrr :
Your content is so beneficial and it’s refreshing! 💕
2026-10-25 02:41:55
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Mary Q :
How do we hire a sitter?
2026-10-25 03:30:00
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Soriah Dolleman :
So good Aubrey!!
2026-10-25 00:38:12
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Tara_Setz :
This is one of my favorite videos you’ve done! Such great advice!
2026-10-25 02:32:59
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Mar Arellano :
This is teamwork 👊🏼
2026-10-25 00:22:49
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user1093268287698 :
This is all great advice. I would also add that newborns are very portable and you can bring them on dates if that helps ease your nerves
2026-10-31 19:55:20
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Miss Ragnarok :
I thank my partner all the time and he tells me “why are you thanking me for looking after my own son? We’re in this together, doing this and learning together. We’re a team” I appreciate everything he does!!
2026-10-25 05:22:22
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Bree | Christian Marriage :
Best marriage advice ever!
2026-10-31 19:06:12
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Klrsy :
I haven’t had babies yet, but we’re talking about it, and you’re giving me advice and perspective I haven’t considered because most advice isn’t like this. I really love your approach to parenting together x
2026-10-28 19:42:04
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Beedo521 :
fantastic advice however I think its sadly not the reality of most women. for those who it us, I envy you
2026-10-31 23:39:54
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lexi Smock :
I just love your content !
2026-10-25 01:33:01
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Kristy M :
I took the first 6 months of maternity and my fiance took the next 6 months. Then our son started private nursery at 12 months so we can both work full time and build careers. wouldnt have it any other way.
2026-10-25 09:05:01
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Krystal :
Thank you for this (mom due in January and worried😭)
2026-10-25 20:39:59
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Susana :
Girl❤️🥰100%
2026-10-25 13:12:33
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kate nastasi :
incredible advice. love this!
2026-10-25 13:49:39
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molllleeeeee :
Taking notes for this March!!
2026-11-02 23:13:06
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