@justaskjefferson: Here’s why you get defensive.

Jenny :

What do you mean argue the value ?

Basha :

Sounds like maga. To a T. They are WRONG. 😢

Kate Brilliant :

this is the reason of war in Ukrain= value against change. and this is so pity, they have to work together. value is not always wrong also the change. :)

MC Tuah :

if we want to change somebody minds 1. validate them 2. dont argue their identity, we to argue against the value, find the value, speak ti the value 3. understand that one conversation wouldn't enough

audhdmamaadvocate :

Cognitive dissonance

DecodePsy :

We don't get defensive because someone attacked us — we get defensive because something they said felt true. That's the part worth listening to. 🔥

Outof_Obscurity :

great point! find the value and maintain the value. you're just helping to shift the value towards the truth instead of the lie.

vanessa :

dont ever use this method with abusive ppl. just a side note lol

CONSCIOUS ALIGNMENT 🪷LYNN :

I see it as “Honest” presentation And as you say VALUE AND ESSENCE. 🪷L

ATL4Life🥷 :

Agreed, however, I think you should elaborate or expand on what you mean by Value.

jo :

So true 💯

Tinymix50 :

You always make great points

Jesus Pacheco :

The ego is your identity all fear is fear of death because the ego knows that’s it end. All that the ego believes to be safe, what you know your past your upbringing it’s what kept it alive. The bad habits, the way people treated you and how it made you feel, even if it was bad or toxic. We unconsciously believe it’s the safest choice because although painful it kept us alive and we got used to it we normalized it. We fear the unknown because it brings a chance of death.

Hudson :

Michelle Cadieux :

Cognitive dissonance

Chris :

humans are weak

Enya Sophia 🥀 :

Talking to people sounds like too much work. Just be wrong man. I dont care

Suzzz :

Wow! Knowledge is power! Proof is a factual statement! Dont argue with facts!

blablehbluh :

WHAT A PAIN THE 4SS TO DEAL WITH PPL. WHO TAKE SHIT PERSONAL, if you are wrong, own it, fix it, move on.

chaos :

This is NOT a natural state of being. This is a formed response over time. You bred people this way.

user5795690808194 :

🙏🙏🙏

Shazad 🇨🇦 :

👍👍👍

ta8ko8 :

❤️❤️❤️