@t0nystarkstwin: my mutuals all covered this nicely @finch @April #nonbinary #feminism

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wabithat10wl
Wabi :
assigned gay at birth? I've never heard agab before
2026-10-25 18:59:51
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dykea69
titties :
"how society perceives them" society perceives them as performing their agab wrong and punishes them for it, the same way they punish binary trans people for it.
2026-10-25 03:12:22
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crying_in_leo
Leo :
As a NB person, im so damn tired of anytime we don’t exclusively present as androgynous (whatever that even means in 2026) that it’s a ‘gotcha’ moment to put us back into a binary. I found myself to be nonbinary after already being rejected from those binary boxes and never feeling like I was enough in one or the other.
2026-11-14 15:02:19
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jayemm501
JayEmm :
I'm non-binary and I'm just tired of people telling me that I don't count because of my assigned gender or the fact that I have a beard. I'm still non-binary.
2026-10-25 18:12:56
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_schnatt
Schnatt :
I feel like agab is so stupid cuz, your gender at birth is NEVER relevant. For medical purposes your sex might be but you gender? Never. And in social situations i dont think sex is relevant almost ever either
2026-10-25 09:10:22
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lauraphobic
laura :
i’m so confused by this discourse because i can’t understand why people are mad at someone for saying we should move away from agab language. i don’t get why that’s such a polarizing take suddenly. like have we really fallen this far? i feel like i’m missing something
2026-10-25 01:54:08
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blckbrdquitter
finch :
thank you because this is exhausting
2026-10-25 02:48:43
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www.punish3r
salem :
the whole bit of denying nonbinary people and the identity's validity is the other side of the same coin as people denying intersex people exist. people are so obsessed with how we perform gender in regards to our genetic/biological sex so they punish nonbinary and intersex individuals for not adhearing to the status quo, even though it'suncontrollable. if one identifies out of the "norm" (ie. be it binary transgender or nonbinary of some sort) they are seen as less than, but it's a double edged sword in the fact that binary presenting binary trans people fall under "more acceptable" compared to fem presenting trans men or masc presenting trans women, let alone nonbinary identity expressions, despite all facing similar transphobia at the base. idk why the queer community has to force a "hierarchy" in how gender identities are percieved, but it absolutely has to do with cis queers trying to be pick mes towards cishet individuals that take issue with queer spaces in general. it's really unfortunate because at the end of the day, the only time one's biological/genetic sex matters is in specific medical settings and gender is a social construct and i wish more people didn't give a crap how others identify.
2026-10-25 12:52:55
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combatwoundedbreaker
♫⃠combatwoundedbreaker♫⃠ :
The only time a nonbinary persons agab should be addressed is by them for themself if they deem it necessary
2026-10-25 18:20:54
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xander_the_undead5
Xander (˵◝ ⩊ ◜˵マ :
I’m nonbinary, I was on T for about a year. I’m going to wear whatever clothes I find fun. Right now it’s more feminine, later on it may not be. It’s all for fun. Gender is a costume we all put on.
2026-10-25 03:18:34
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pink.gibberish
Morgan :
"low social value" is eugenics talk.
2026-10-26 01:55:25
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amai__lee
Amai 🌸 :
The funny thing is, that person who made the original video is never going to talk about "female socialization" or position (because that is something our community can talk about, we can talk about socialization and positioning, but her as a CIS person needs to get out of our conversations). They're only worried about anything to do with men. And we know exactly why that is.
2026-10-25 16:01:49
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pvppycvts
⛧⃝𓄃 :
Im so tired of being nonbinary and excluded from the trans community and defined by my genitalia and the gender i was assigned at birth. My sex is between me , my doctors, and my closest loved ones. The internet does not need to know whats in my pants.
2026-10-25 15:03:59
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bubbleteapenguin
Boba penguin 🧋🐧 :
The way people were like “I mean that account is run by a terf but she was right about the autistic nonbinary ppl” YALL HEAR YOURSELVES RIGHT LMAOO???
2026-10-25 08:48:50
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brainlesszombie
xX_BR4A1NL355_Z0MB13_Xx 🇨🇦 :
sometimes it feels like the queer community views us non-binary people as less transgender than those who are in the binary. it really sucks, shouldn't we be helping uplift one another rather than punch down?
2026-10-25 19:13:18
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peygayparade
Peyton U :
Friend you never miss
2026-10-25 13:11:23
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looy1312
looy :
who even needs the cia atp
2026-10-25 16:28:03
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avicanfly
Avi 🇨🇦🏳️‍🌈 :
I have many nonbinary friends who present as their SAAB and the way they get treated writ large and how discourse happens around NB people it just shows how much people want there to be girl NB and boy NB.
2026-10-25 15:18:26
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jacobaco_
Jacob (they/them) :
so, so tired of these thinly veiled terfy takes
2026-10-25 21:37:27
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silanti_kouraj
Botan Kamiina's Highball :
also it important to know gender isnt nor has never been your physical body. Cishetero policy tone, mannerism, food so heavily. Simply ignoring it or being lose with it cause them to act differently towards folks. So the idea that not transition make a nonbinary equavilent to cis people one doesnt actually understsnd what transition does and 2. isnt really that knowledge about gender.
2026-10-25 02:54:41
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dvonmustard66
Devon 👵 :
I'm like oh okay? I didn't know I had to perform to be myself 🤣 I've looked different many times and it's never been masculine unless I have to work and have a dress code. I am fine with the body I was born in, my spirit is what's non binary for me.
2026-10-25 04:59:08
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jonwy_jrb
Jonwy :
trying to define people by their gender at birth and if they had transitioned, it erasing the fluidity of gender in general, especially nonbinary people, and this take no only affect nonbinary cis people but also trans people that identify as the opposite gender but doesn't medically or even physically transition, and it just add to the hate in within our community
2026-10-25 11:42:19
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bonesandbiomes
BonesandBiomes :
This is what’s so exhausting as a trans person. Agab shouldn’t be an issue to talk about but the bio essentialism that is brought in is wild
2026-10-25 04:34:54
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lesbimurii
— ᨳଓ . ru .ᐟ :
ty for this omg 😭😭
2026-10-25 02:30:50
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mikeyg253
Mikeyg253 :
I wish people could just understand gender expressions and stop worrying about how people live their life D: in my early 20s I was non binary and dressed fem, but gender is fluid, and now I’m in a different era of my gender expression. This was me in college :
2026-10-25 07:44:38
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