@_jen_hamilton_: It’s the most disorienting experience. I am having trouble forgiving myself for believing him.

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heyhihello1974
Hello :
Ugh. Are u following h3h3 cheating betrayal. It’s diabolical
2026-10-25 03:29:45
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annieandolivestudio
Annie&Olive Studio AJL Poetry :
Thanks for the poem idea 💡
2026-10-25 23:55:29
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tricare_triceratops
Tricare_ triceratops :
It sucks to grieve a person and a life that was never real.
2026-10-25 03:37:15
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amberdedeaux
Amber Dedeaux :
I always explain in a metaphorical sense. I truly loved my husband and intended to be married to him for life. And then, all of a sudden, a stranger wearing my husband’s face, walked into our house, and 💀 my husband, right in front of me.
2026-10-25 04:39:22
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professional_dadvice
Professional_Dadvice BCBA, LBA :
Just realized this is kind of what religious deconstruction felt like.
2026-10-25 03:54:52
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ceebo__
ceebo__ :
From my therapist: you were a different person when you believed him. You would see through it if you went back now, but you didn’t know not to believe him then. You were giving him the benefit of the goodness in you, but we only can see after that they didn’t deserve that benefit. So we were viewing it with what we knew at the time
2026-10-26 00:31:02
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detectivedips1
Detective Dips :
You believed in the potential that was there..he didn’t fool you babe, he chose to not be who he could have been… you have nothing to forgive yourself for. I’m proud of you 🫶🏾
2026-10-25 03:32:18
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kelseydgggggv
Kelsey DG :
oh it’s very wicked. The second round of anger is diabolical when it’s not watered down by sad.
2026-10-25 04:02:30
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rosaleemack
Rosa :
I’m 10 years divorced from a 30 year relationship and this is the first time someone said what my brain felt. I didn’t have the words. How did I not see it? I trusted him so much. With everything in me. It was all a lie? How? I still don’t understand really.
2026-10-25 08:11:45
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jlc03003
Jenn :
I’ve been divorced for almost 5 years, and I still have memories of random events and wonder if they were real or if he was just pretending at that moment.
2026-10-26 19:59:41
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crystal.tries.things
Crystal | actually doing it :
You do your best with the information you have. Know better, do better. And you did
2026-10-25 03:30:55
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debbiegarcia53
Deb Garcia :
As Maya Angelou said, "when you know better, you do better" Give yourself GRACE❤️
2026-10-25 04:03:03
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donnam731
Donna Marie :
It’s worse when you see it dawning on your kids’ face about the person you chose for their dad. Could I have known how cruel that person would become even to the point of hurting them to get back at me? No. Do I still blame myself? Yes.
2026-10-25 03:33:49
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chris25272
Chris :
Uggg I know this 😓
2026-10-26 23:07:28
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collette8ball
8 Ball :
After discovering the betrayal, i thought he looks like my husband but someone else took over his body and it’s not the person I was married to for 20 years anymore. A totally different identity has taken over
2026-10-27 12:47:41
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ccannon50
Ccannon :
So disorienting - you come out of it a totally different person.
2026-10-27 05:12:06
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kj.mac.photos
✨️🫧🤍𝕂𝕁 𝕄𝕒𝕔🪷🌱🤟 :
Grieving the person I /thought/ I married was the hardest part.
2026-10-26 19:13:17
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crystaltensley
Crystal Davis :
ABSOLUTELY!!
2026-10-26 14:00:20
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jiggliestbit
Jiggliestbit :
looking at someone you've built a life around and realising it was founded on either their own deceit or your own delusion..it's a unique pain.
2026-10-25 11:46:05
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emmynae0321
Emily :
I saw my ex husband for the first time in 4 years since our divorce and oh.my.goodness-the veil is broken. He looked horrible from 4 more years of heavy drinking (also has an elderly gf who owns a bar). When he noticed me his body language completely changed as if he was struck my a bolt of guilt. I had a mini panic attack but my now boyfriend was so supportive and loving. I always wondered if karma would find him…I got my confirmation today. She has his number.. remember that!
2026-10-25 07:25:54
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o__honey
o_honey :
And then the "gift" of having to establish a healthy co-parenting relationship with that person for the sake of your kids.
2026-10-25 14:42:03
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dallasmeadows1
Dallas Meadows :
Think of the forgiveness you would give to your sister or your best friend over this, and then double that and give it to yourself!!
2026-10-25 04:58:28
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outdoneandoverit
Kym - Outdone and Over It :
This is so true. I’m realizing that in the 29 years I was married he was really good at placating. He was such a coward and disconnected from his own emotions lying was his comfort zone.
2026-10-25 04:25:13
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michellebutler00007
MichelleB 🌸 :
Sitting across from them in mediation and court while they’re fighting you when they chose to leave is really something
2026-10-25 03:44:42
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marghostly13
marghostly13 :
There’s a line in patient zero where she talks about it was because they were bathing in your reflecting light and that’s soo true
2026-10-25 04:08:47
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