doing the 17 questions from the alversett effect by nora alversett made me realize how much power i was giving away to people who didn't even deserve my attention
2026-10-25 09:26:16
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urban_xyz :
Every time I hear someone say “You matter” I get that same feeling after hearing “Sorry I can’t help, hopefully someone else can” for the 30th time. Words mean nothing, look at politics for the easiest example. Unless you can prove it without seeming fake, it’s hard to trust just words especially from a stranger
2026-10-25 05:09:59
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V :
Thank you baba as knowledgeable and aware as I am I am flawed for being affected by people's behaviour toward me
2026-10-25 11:23:11
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8TEE:AM :
my fyp loves playing in my face at 5:47am
2026-10-25 09:47:40
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americanmade_2003 :
Im so fucking tired
2026-10-25 05:56:30
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mbull10725 :
Well I just found out today that the girl I’ve wanted and liked for so long she told me she found someone else. I knew I was never gonna get chosen but i thought she was different. I’m tired of being this good person and man. No one ever appreciates me and I’m just destined to be alone.
2026-10-25 05:45:58
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⛤ Kitty ⛤ 📚🫦👀🐈⬛ :
I know I change peoples lives, but that doesn't stop them from... idk leaving? in the worst ways. or ghosting, that's a pretty common one. even after months or years. But I don't reach out anymore.
2026-10-25 06:08:21
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beauuuuuu :
Ahhh the validation of social media the “you matter” thanks bro
2026-10-25 06:27:11
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Chase Hellman :
I only believe in actions VS words. Words dont mean anything to me unless you back them up with actions. “You matter to me.” Well do something or anything that shows me i matter to you. Like Ive honestly given up on putting in effort to friendships and relationships because im the one purely putting any and all effort. Ive had a now ex make plans to my face that didnt include me. Reserved a table at a restaurant for only them and their friends. A restaurant they knew i liked… and to make it worse on a day/night we had made plans on hanging out because we both had the same day off. I said fuck it im done with this… then they proceeded to say i didnt care about them which just infuriated me even more.
2026-10-25 10:49:45
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ryuzaaa :
i've tried a lot of self-help advice over the years, but i think the hardest part is finding something that actually speaks to what you're going through. Self I Left Behind by Jessica Morgan explores that feeling of being disconnected from yourself
2026-10-25 11:22:51
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Maya :
i turned 34 recently and realized i couldn't even answer what i enjoyed doing anymore. Self I Left Behind by Jessica Morgan touches on that feeling of wanting to get to know yourself again 🤍
2026-10-25 11:21:52
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scottcornelius77 :
you have no idea 💡💡
2026-10-25 10:43:36
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🦖 :
Aw wait this is so nice it lit couldn’t have came at a better time
2026-10-25 03:35:29
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Anakin & Peanut Glitter :
I love watching u because u make me feel better about myself😭❤️
2026-10-25 03:41:20
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Mini Jutt72 :
so nice
2026-10-25 09:30:50
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Cadence :
I admire you so much, you have helped me make it through some REALLY tough times 💗
2026-10-25 03:36:47
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fynnlie🦆🙃🤠 :
ngl this helped me sm
2026-10-25 03:45:58
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Noayok :
yeah nobody texts me first nobody remebered my birthday except my parents and one friend who I barely see and talk to
2026-10-25 10:19:03
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Cathiliacrimson :
I just wish I didn’t have to beg for the bare minimum from friends.
2026-10-25 09:57:32
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hammmy 🌝 :
the one person that i feel like i matter to is the only other person i know who is neurodivergent too. i need more friends like them
2026-10-25 05:57:28
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Peachy Plays :
I feel like everyone in my friend group has someone except me
2026-10-25 07:35:52
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Joshua :
2026-10-25 08:48:46
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Claven :
but it doesn't leave my mind i miss when she loved me and I didnt need to ask for the little things
2026-10-25 09:53:07
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2026-10-25 07:26:39
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