@ori.mcgarry: Compulsory monogamy is just as insidious and violent as compulsory heterosexuality. Seeing pokyamorous people as this separate "other" group that is not valid to date is weird segregation. You cannot and will never own another human being. Any desire to limit someone you are into's freedom and autonomy should be examined as a symptom of internalized Fascism and a reflection of your own unhealthy desire to control people. Choosing monogamy for yourself is so valid. Ever expecting it from other people is so not. - - - - - #polyamory #comphet #compmono #compulsorymonogamy #dating