@residueleft: They told people you refused to help. What they didn't explain was what you had to agree to first. Sometimes a refusal isn't about being difficult or unwilling. It's about the pressure, demands, or conditions attached to the request. When those details disappear, a boundary can be made to look like selfishness. That's how missing context changes the story. #storymanipulation #emotionalabuse #missingcontext #coercivecontrol #psychologicalabuse