@scrambled.megs3: He never hit me. But I was so afraid of him that my body learned to wake up before my alarm did. I didn’t have bruises. I had fear. Every. Single. Day. #emotionalabuse #narcissisticabuse #domesticabuse #hiddenabuse #survivor
rehearsing what to say minute late from work..being anxious all the tym..you cant explain this kind of abuse
2026-11-07 09:42:39
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Rhiannon :
I should never be “scared to get in trouble” by someone who is supposed to love me
2026-10-26 01:51:15
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Kate Lyden :
I feel this
2026-11-06 00:53:32
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Robyn :
Been divorced 2 years and I am learning that’s it’s okay to lay in bed and not worry about getting yelled at for relaxing in bed!
2026-11-05 17:06:33
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SquidBillie :
And the funny part is they would NEVER have the same “consideration”
2026-10-28 02:20:44
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michelehollingswo6 :
I forgot how much I dreaded the sound of the garage door opening. I would clean, ready meals, and never be caught sitting on the couch when he got home. I didn’t recognize this as fear motivated until years later.
2026-10-28 05:39:53
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Tespinosa88 :
I put up with that bullshit for 34 years. Finally, 2 1/2 years ago I left. So happy now!!!
2026-10-26 16:30:23
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TexasLil23 :
He was treated like a prince. I was the unloved servant. He was treated much much better than he deserved.
2026-10-25 23:52:42
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Unmarried Chronicles :
I was so considerate and he never gave shit about me. That’s the tragedy
2026-10-27 13:51:57
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Donna Dear :
he got ao mad bc the smoke detector battery started beeping at 3 am. it scared my dogs and I couldn't sleep bc they were so upset. he had a meltdown bc we woke him. I climbed on a ladder and changed the battery so everyone could go back to sleep. he NEVER once offered to help. the next day I told him it was time to leave. if you cant help with a small inconvenience and get so triggered, then GO. I dont need you.
2026-10-26 04:00:06
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Finally Happy 😊💜 :
I lived there for 31 years!! I hear you I see you you were not wrong. I’m glad you’re out and you’re safe.! work on thriving.
2026-10-26 00:14:26
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Kristin | Boy Mom 💙 Dog Mom :
I couldn’t even do things around the house like dishes or laundry if he called me. Even if I was in the middle of doing it and he called me. He would be so mad I was making noise
2026-10-26 22:08:16
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jennyschneider50 :
I went to work everyday with wet hair for 10 years because a hair dryer would have been disruptive in the morning.
2026-10-26 01:17:29
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Amy H 💛 :
We really don’t want them to wake up because it was nothing loving that was coming out of their mouth anyway 😞💔
2026-10-26 08:38:44
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heatherlea928 :
Saaaaame.. this was my whole life walking on eggshells and it took me married for 10+years to realize this.
2026-10-25 23:41:29
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thismuddsmine :
Put my clothes in the bathroom the night before and quietly got dressed in there to make sure not to wake him up.
2026-10-26 00:19:25
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Kim :
OMG same! I was so unhappy but cannot justify a divorce on being unhappy. I mean, after all, he never hit me. And sometimes my brain would just scream out “please hit me, just once, hit me. Give me a reason to leave.” This was before before I knew about emotional, psychological and mental abuse. Once I realized that, I worked hard on my escape plan.
2026-10-26 20:18:01
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Katie_kbmcreations :
not listening to the music you like or taking a shower or go to the bathroom when you want to because they might need the bathroom while you are in there.
2026-10-26 01:43:42
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Unmarried Chronicles :
Love this series!
2026-10-27 13:48:21
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Ana :
I feel this in my core
2026-10-27 01:28:57
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Cary Bee :
Death by a thousand papercuts, survived that for 30 years 😥
2026-10-28 07:54:39
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Misty Dawny :
Wow, felt every second of this! One time my daughter & grandson came over while he was in bed (he went to bed early because of his work) & he came out of the bedroom screaming at me asking why I didnt stop the stomping & loud talking...because I didn't hear any of it.....that's why. You didnt dare say that tho.....
2026-10-30 17:58:51
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melzerkaylie :
i would hit the floor running every morning trying to leave the house before he woke up
2026-10-27 03:31:25
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nikkimarie726 :
Same. SAME. Walking on egg shells 24/7!
2026-10-27 20:19:52
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Valerie❤️❤️ :
Oh girl you aren’t alone! Nope that alarm goes off ok let’s go let’s start the day! Don’t wake the beast
2026-10-27 03:05:41
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