@tomafteralcohol: To celebrate 10,000 followers, I asked my wife what her favorite part of my alcoholism was. Turns out she didn’t have one. My drinking didn’t just hurt me. It left her raising our kids alone, cleaning up my messes, and somehow being made to feel responsible for the chaos I created. Getting sober doesn’t erase what I put her through. And I don’t get to decide when she’s done hurting from it.

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63cmc63
63cm63 :
She will internally hate him forever
2026-10-25 21:49:43
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miss.andryy
💕 Miss Andrist 💕 :
Oh she HATE hates him
2026-10-25 22:04:50
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cassieduncan7
Cassie Kivett :
No I think this is so healthy she can express herself safely with him
2026-10-25 22:34:05
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way2oldfortiktok
Adrianna🥀 :
Him being sober now doesn’t undo the damage he did before. She doesn’t heal just because he sobered up, it takes time.
2026-10-25 23:17:06
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allanhart80
Al Hart :
That went well! On that note, I'm not going to ask my wife that question. Thanks.
2026-10-25 21:32:15
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tazzward
Tazz Ward :
Should we leave the room or
2026-10-25 21:39:31
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kimijuke
KimiJuke :
Not one stutter. We adore her. 🥰
2026-10-25 21:48:54
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axnichole1
Amber :
I don’t think she dislikes him like people are trying to interpret. She loved him enough to stick through it and comments like this I think hold him accountable for how much his drinking really did affect the family. I’m sure she’s still very angry but I don’t think she hates him by any means
2026-10-25 22:53:35
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riahtherad
riahtherad :
This is actually not funny, that’s a lot of trauma
2026-10-25 23:38:20
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3asincorperated
alice0393 :
well what did he expect?? his choices made her life harder bc he wanted to..
2026-10-25 22:47:25
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becca13white
Becca :
now go hug her and ask what you can do to help with dinner!!!
2026-10-25 22:49:09
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kerrs111
K 🇨🇦 :
Oh she was ready 💁🏻‍♀️
2026-10-25 19:59:30
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aintmuchforlyin
New Boot Goofin :
She’s not quite ready to have fun yet. But I’m willing to bet it was your dancing
2026-10-25 21:52:59
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garagelandpix
Garageland Pictures :
She didn’t skip a beat
2026-10-26 09:12:39
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sherrie_619
Sherrie 😈 :
That second part .. spot on
2026-10-26 09:01:31
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user67579407798751
user67579407798751 :
Yeahh I don’t think couple therapy is gonna fix this one
2026-10-26 03:04:20
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olympiaelektra
olympiaelektra :
He’s still not deferential enough
2026-10-26 09:18:16
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aidakebick
aida 💌 :
yes girl GET HIM
2026-10-26 08:52:28
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excelatsomething
Sara Mack :
She deserves so much better
2026-10-26 00:04:56
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afro_buddha
Afro_buddha :
I think he should be able to raise the children by himself for the same amount of time that she did it.
2026-10-25 22:22:21
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parker.gibsss
parker.gibsss :
oh she resents you pa
2026-10-25 22:23:10
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_lanalarose
_lanalarose :
Sir she’s mentally filing for divorce
2026-10-25 23:05:18
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clowntitties4life
Ashlyn🧟‍♀️🏹🐉 :
You can love someone and still hold them accountable
2026-10-25 22:51:08
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witchy310
witchy31 :
she will always have her guard up, anticipating when is he going to disappoint her again. horrible feeling.
2026-10-26 01:29:32
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lelly_is_da_name
𝐋eslie :
my ex was only nice when he was hungover. it was traumatizing.
2026-10-25 22:26:16
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