@santino.inbetween: Anxious attachment. Dismissive avoidant. Fearful avoidant. When did dating become a psychological diagnosis? I’m 51, and after 27 years of marriage, I’m trying to figure out when we started using all these labels to explain why people can’t show up in relationships. I’m not saying attachment styles aren’t real. I’m saying understanding your behavior doesn’t excuse it. Sometimes you’re just not ready for a relationship, and that’s OK. Just be honest about it instead of dragging someone else through your confusion. #DatingAfterDivorce #datingafter40 #datingafter50 #StartingOver

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user123566368063
user7014998303966 :
People please after 50 both sides had their chance we struck out we are in the broken toy pile we have no business in dating lol don’t play your self’s
2026-11-10 03:03:06
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chantal.richardso
Chantal :
Exactly! I’m sick of labels.
2026-10-26 00:45:33
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joelie.marie0
joeliemarie3 :
Too many labels. It’s Personality traits. Some match some don’t. No harm no foul
2026-11-03 03:14:59
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newnr4
Newnr4 🇦🇺 :
Dude: it isn’t just women who have these issues. Date some men, and you’ll meet some doozies! People are the issue, not the gender
2026-10-26 09:58:30
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emzyvdnzky
Emzyv Dnzky :
Being single is the best choice...it's a very peaceful life.
2026-10-28 09:09:48
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jagonzalez033
ja González :
These women AND men have….
2026-10-28 09:02:01
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carriewoelk
carriewoelk :
54 and it sucks
2026-10-26 02:11:28
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getrudezulu2025
G Zulu Zulu :
hello I'm 51 years single
2026-11-06 20:59:01
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tatyanacollin
Taty :
Good morning hope you are doing wonderful
2026-11-06 14:55:30
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kajumbaflorencenk
Kajumba Florence :
Was married to a narcissist for 17 years. I have all that and sounds weird. 50 years old. Inbox only if you want serious relationship not playing games.
2026-10-31 15:44:59
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annie.rose139
Annie Rose 🌹💐 :
Wow you look so cute 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
2026-11-03 20:06:09
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13life17
Višnja🍒 :
Women aren’t buying into the hassles of lousy relationships.
2026-10-27 04:15:38
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floriebutalon
floriebutalon :
oh godblessed
2026-11-08 00:08:17
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namulondojidah
chosen by God :
hello single
2026-11-08 07:55:33
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butternuteatcarbs
Brenda :
Where are you located?
2026-10-26 03:03:32
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user999880850192
life :
Being single is the best choice
2026-10-26 14:26:51
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tonybaltazar44
tony Baltazar :
Damage
2026-11-01 14:22:39
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ofelia.regis3
Ofelia Regis :
Hi
2026-10-28 04:43:02
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sujiaanii
Suji :
hello sir, how are you, I'm single too
2026-10-27 02:55:29
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emuti.1986
Emuti Admasu :
hello.👐👐👐
2026-11-04 16:37:17
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shyhackley
Soiled Dove ❌ :
I understand this is your point of view, but honestly, this goes both ways! We are really in an epidemic. I had one boyfriend in 10 years of being single currently still. And it was a disaster because he was so emotionally unavailable and still madly in love with his ex-wife, and he had a strange fascination for his oldest daughter who looked and acted exactly like his ex-wife. My life was hell with him. Even in our bedroom, he had no pictures of me, but he had a bunch of pictures of his daughter and his wife that he refused to take down. He had he was a sex addict, which he hid from me. And he was an ex meth and heroin addict, again chose to not disclose that information. And when I got chronically sick, he kicked me out of his house to live in my car while I was dealing with a chronic illness in and out of the hospital and his justification was no man wants a sick woman.!!! so unfortunately, we all have these horrible crazy stories!! But in my point of view, I’ve been single 10 years and every single man that’s ever came along and showed any kind of interest only cared about a conquest and sex. I have not met one decent honorable man. And I will be single forever until I find one.
2026-10-29 17:23:08
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brendalee3910
brendalee3910 :
people are nuts
2026-11-03 01:12:18
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anabeltran3598
Ana Rose :
Back in the day we called the a holes
2026-10-31 05:10:03
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mapogo187
The bad guy :
Don’t date just rend one once a month
2026-11-02 22:44:36
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