@santino.inbetween: Anxious attachment. Dismissive avoidant. Fearful avoidant. When did dating become a psychological diagnosis? I’m 51, and after 27 years of marriage, I’m trying to figure out when we started using all these labels to explain why people can’t show up in relationships. I’m not saying attachment styles aren’t real. I’m saying understanding your behavior doesn’t excuse it. Sometimes you’re just not ready for a relationship, and that’s OK. Just be honest about it instead of dragging someone else through your confusion. #DatingAfterDivorce #datingafter40 #datingafter50 #StartingOver
People please after 50 both sides had their chance we struck out we are in the broken toy pile we have no business in dating lol don’t play your self’s
2026-11-10 03:03:06
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Chantal :
Exactly! I’m sick of labels.
2026-10-26 00:45:33
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joeliemarie3 :
Too many labels. It’s Personality traits. Some match some don’t. No harm no foul
2026-11-03 03:14:59
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Newnr4 🇦🇺 :
Dude: it isn’t just women who have these issues. Date some men, and you’ll meet some doozies! People are the issue, not the gender
2026-10-26 09:58:30
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Emzyv Dnzky :
Being single is the best choice...it's a very peaceful life.
2026-10-28 09:09:48
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ja González :
These women AND men have….
2026-10-28 09:02:01
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carriewoelk :
54 and it sucks
2026-10-26 02:11:28
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G Zulu Zulu :
hello I'm 51 years single
2026-11-06 20:59:01
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Taty :
Good morning hope you are doing wonderful
2026-11-06 14:55:30
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Kajumba Florence :
Was married to a narcissist for 17 years. I have all that and sounds weird. 50 years old. Inbox only if you want serious relationship not playing games.
2026-10-31 15:44:59
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Annie Rose 🌹💐 :
Wow you look so cute 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
2026-11-03 20:06:09
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Višnja🍒 :
Women aren’t buying into the hassles of lousy relationships.
2026-10-27 04:15:38
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floriebutalon :
oh godblessed
2026-11-08 00:08:17
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chosen by God :
hello single
2026-11-08 07:55:33
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Brenda :
Where are you located?
2026-10-26 03:03:32
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life :
Being single is the best choice
2026-10-26 14:26:51
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tony Baltazar :
Damage
2026-11-01 14:22:39
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Ofelia Regis :
Hi
2026-10-28 04:43:02
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Suji :
hello sir, how are you, I'm single too
2026-10-27 02:55:29
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Emuti Admasu :
hello.👐👐👐
2026-11-04 16:37:17
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Soiled Dove ❌ :
I understand this is your point of view, but honestly, this goes both ways! We are really in an epidemic. I had one boyfriend in 10 years of being single currently still. And it was a disaster because he was so emotionally unavailable and still madly in love with his ex-wife, and he had a strange fascination for his oldest daughter who looked and acted exactly like his ex-wife. My life was hell with him. Even in our bedroom, he had no pictures of me, but he had a bunch of pictures of his daughter and his wife that he refused to take down. He had he was a sex addict, which he hid from me. And he was an ex meth and heroin addict, again chose to not disclose that information. And when I got chronically sick, he kicked me out of his house to live in my car while I was dealing with a chronic illness in and out of the hospital and his justification was no man wants a sick woman.!!! so unfortunately, we all have these horrible crazy stories!! But in my point of view, I’ve been single 10 years and every single man that’s ever came along and showed any kind of interest only cared about a conquest and sex. I have not met one decent honorable man. And I will be single forever until I find one.
2026-10-29 17:23:08
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brendalee3910 :
people are nuts
2026-11-03 01:12:18
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Ana Rose :
Back in the day we called the a holes
2026-10-31 05:10:03
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The bad guy :
Don’t date just rend one once a month
2026-11-02 22:44:36
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