@lmarie242: 🍂😍 UPSTATE NEW YORK REALLY KNOWS HOW TO SHOW OFF IN THE FALL… BUT CAN SOMEBODY EXPLAIN THE DATING SCENE?! 😭💀 The fall foliage? GORGEOUS. 🍁 The mountains, waterfalls, lakes, scenic drives, little coffee shops with apple cider drinks… somebody needs to put Upstate NY on a postcard because the views are UNREAL. 😍📸 BUT THE MEN?! BABYYYY. 😂😂😂 How can a man pursue you, be completely into you, make plans to see you, tell you to come get him, know there’s chemistry… and then suddenly decide you’re “too good to be true” and must be a whole FRAUD?! 😭💀 SIR, THIS IS A DATING SCENE, NOT A FEDERAL INVESTIGATION. 😂😂😂 And listen, I’m a Long Island girl living Upstate, so maybe I’m just used to a different kind of energy. 🤷‍♀️😂 But why does dating up here sometimes feel like trying to solve a mystery nobody asked to be part of?! I LOVE the beauty of Upstate NY. I love the small-town charm, the scenery, the hidden gems, and the fact that you can find breathtaking views just a short drive away. 🍂❤️ But can we PLEASE get the romantic side of things together, too?! 😂 Now I need HONEST answers… 👇 UPSTATE NY, EXPLAIN YOURSELVES. 😂 🍁 Is it just me, or is the dating scene actually WEIRD up here? 👀 Ladies, have you ever had a man pursue YOU, then act suspicious when you actually like him back?! 😂 And be honest… are Long Island men different, or am I romanticizing my hometown?! Drop your city or town below because I KNOW I’m not the only one noticing things. 😂👇 #UpstateNY #SyracuseNY #LongIslandGirl #NYDating

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