Erika Grundon
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kaysha 🪐 :
Anxious attachments are literally hell. You can’t say anything without then making it about themselves
2026-10-26 09:42:20
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A Fukin 🇨🇦 Joy :
as someone with secure attachment both of these people sound like hell to me
2026-10-26 15:54:27
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hbv :
The more I see these videos the more I realize that I’m not really avoidant. My last partner was just so incredibly anxious that I became avoidant during that relationship.
2026-10-26 12:16:07
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Evergreen 🌱🌲 :
why is it so difficult for some people to accept no?? if someone wants to keep something to themselves then clearly they aren't ready or just don't wanna share at all. trying to force it out is just assholery.
2026-10-26 09:36:06
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oddalbym0 :
So this isn’t “avoidant” this is actually just a regular person
2026-10-27 12:43:57
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Kassandra 🔪🖤 :
my ex pushed me so much that i finally told her EVERYTHING and then she started crying after the fact. she goes "i feel like a monster. i'm sorry for pushing you" and i said "good. bcus u r." and i broke up w her right on the spot. a year of dating and i felt absolutely nothing breaking it off w her. i just felt numbed
2026-10-26 15:48:26
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ancient alien :
this shows why I've personally always found avoidants much more tolerable 😭 it's easier to just leave someone alone than to deal with constant badgering and having to be someone's sole method of emotional regulation
2026-10-26 16:46:20
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PROX!MA :
anxious attachment people make me lose my shit
2026-10-26 19:53:08
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MommaMarie :
Oh this one actually did trigger me. "No" is a full answer. You are not owed a deeper explanation. You are not entitled to someone's trauma. It is not your job to "fix" them. Just uuuuuuuugh!!
2026-10-26 10:09:38
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funniebunn1e :
“You’re business is my business now” aaaaand we’re done. Right there. We’re done.
2026-11-07 14:43:12
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miri_probably :
My skin is crawling. I hate them.
2026-10-26 12:06:11
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That_one_bi_kid🪶 :
Literally feels like this. What are they? The police??
2026-10-26 23:27:49
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.7. :
Not every thought deserves your full attention.
2026-11-08 17:05:37
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I_made_sure_she_was_okay :
I hate when people act like me not wanting to date an anxious as an avoidant for this exact reason makes me awful. Like knowing I wouldn’t want a relationship like this doesn’t mean I can’t have a healthy relationship or that not wanting to see/talk to my partner all the time and share every detail about myself is ‘unhealthy’ or toxic. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re automatically entitled to all their time and knowing every single thing about them
2026-10-26 05:14:50
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Mely :
They’re so suffocating
2026-10-29 00:57:27
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KiwiKitty :
Anxiously attached people feel like they’re trying to crawl inside your skins with each question and boundary they push
2026-10-26 19:55:37
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idkman :
i think i just got physically ill from this, why do some people think 'no' means 'just try harder'
2026-10-26 13:01:53
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Kiro :
I feel like "i don't like talking about my childhood" is enough context to understand that it was shitty. why do you need details? why do you need someone to revisit possibly the worst part of their lives to "understand" them?
2026-10-27 01:59:58
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°.✧˖☆???☆✧˖°.🧡 :
Genuinely got irritated watching this. I hate people who can't accept no. Like omg when I tell you naturally its cool but if you PUSH. You can bet on me leaving.
2026-10-28 22:43:39
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Katie (: :
I do have problems with this because I’m someone who overshares my entire life and all my traumas with just about every friend or acquaintance I have or even strangers sometimes. From my perspective, I have a hard time understanding why people don’t want to do the same, but obviously I know not everyone is the same as me.
2026-10-27 18:09:59
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_cha1ns4w_m4n_ :
This is why I can't stand avoidants
2026-11-06 18:00:27
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Oscar Alcala :
Even as secure they be pushing limits. They gotta understand we have to feel emotionally safe with you then we will open up
2026-10-26 12:40:19
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small wild & boneless :
being with an anxiously attached person is like being in “institutionalized” by suicidal tendencies
2026-10-26 10:16:12
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lily :
When my ex pressured me to tell him in detail about my SA trauma 🧍♀️
2026-10-26 18:00:57
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Chochoł :
the second one doesnt even seem like the avoidant
2026-10-26 17:14:45
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