@soulcerenity: #psychology #psychological #facts

thebipolardiaries0 :

hyper vigilance from walking on eggshells throughout childhood.

Stephanie Hinson :

This is so true

NosferaJEW :

I used to ask my dad what was wrong with him all the time as a teenager . I asked to determine his mood. Sometimes my dad would be in a bad mood and small things I would get hit for like spilling make up on the floor or a friend who's come over unexpectedly once I got hit for something he thought was disrespectful but I wasn't trying to be. My dad had apologized for the way he treated me but He does joke from time to time and ask me " what's wrong with you ?" he says that's because I always asked him . I learned as an adult that was called scanning

JoshButton :

from my moms 2nd hubby platoon srg marine corps uh yaaaa snger meant danger always every day ... duh lol i can diffuse almost any sitch

tmorrone498 :

That's me! Never thought of that way!

shyqaio23 :

I do it all the time

AlphaPhoenix21 :

My ex-roommate would berate and snap at me all the tkme I dod something so little. So now my best friend, that is also now my roommate, is doing the same. She knows what my ex-roommate did as well. So I'm moving out as soon as I can bc that pmo.

MelK297♓ :

totally get that............ still happens😔

??? :

Why is this so true

DakidFiji :

Still feel this at 26🤦🏾‍♂️

Pamela Nicholson208 :

Very true still do this.

Heather :

of course anger meant danger my father was a psychopath he was angry for anything he took it out on me being flung across the living rooms is not a fun way of finding out you can't fly. being choked out or drugged into submission is not good and he did all of that while in anger and as soon as it would subside he'd buy me a toy or a treat or just Pat me on the head and tell me he loved me and I took it because I thought that's how dad's were.

yagmi :

I'm not. I'm only like that becuz i have a friend 🥺

Zcmbicxrn Jane 💕🧟‍♀️ :

oooof

BRINA8812 :

welp this was loud

Deacon Saint :

I am 33 and I fear the fact someone is mad at me, if when they aren’t I still feel as if they are and it scares me because I have been through multiple relationships thinking that I am the problem and in the end self sabotaging my relationship, how do I overcome this and where do I start

JJISHALLNOTWANT :

Stop

Hafiz_Isa :

its true, but now i just dgaf🤣

MemaBooboo :

True

ainkyne :

this is so true

ULY813 :

TikTok must of forgot I’m gansta like tha

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Marie Tillberg :

Am 62 and still reakt like that. Today I know way, but I reakt like this anyway🤷‍♀️

bennellllll :

Ay amo na gli