Andrea Fernández :
She just wanted the women here calling her life "goals". There is not a single piece of wisdom or advice in her story. I am too a very happily married, supported, lucky mother of a beautifully perfect 15 month old boy, but I will never dare to think my story is something that anyone can have by just choosing right. You don't get to choose your birth family, or the baby you bring into this world, their health conditions, your partner's health, your own health, how your partner parents, your financial situation, pregnancy, health insurance coverage... None of the things that matter the most in the final outcome is a choice you can simply plan ahead with high standards. Don't assume other people's reality is purely a bad choice because it isn't, most of a person's circumstances are something you are born into or simply cannot control. You know something you can actually control? Your choice whether or not to have children, whether or not to get married. That you can choose.
2026-10-27 15:18:30