@oldmanwisdom_: Dating advice for women — you go on a date, the guy asks to split the bill 50/50. What do you do? I asked this question before and got thousands of responses. But here’s what I found interesting. Not one person thought to ask the guy WHY. Maybe he really likes you but can’t afford to pay for both of you. Maybe there’s another reason. Everyone was so quick to judge him without actually knowing why. So what do you think? Are we too quick to judge people? #datingadvice #dating #relationships #firstdate #relationshipadvice
If he can’t afford the bill he shouldn’t be dating!
2026-10-26 15:17:34
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DaisyMay22 :
If the man can't afford a date then he shouldn't go on a date.
2026-10-26 18:16:03
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Maria :
he should choose a coffee date then. its not about the cost it's about the gentlemanly gesture imo
2026-10-26 13:08:44
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Elizabeth :
If you can't afford the date why did he choose it? Why not choose something that doesn't cost much, or anything? A coffee date is really cheap, a nice walk out is free......
2026-10-26 16:23:24
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🇨🇦 Gigi Williams ❌ :
So why is he going out on a date if he can’t afford it?
2026-10-26 12:52:44
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Janine :
Book something he can afford.. simple
2026-10-26 14:13:46
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lka903 :
That's Delusional! If he's having financial problems then he should stay single
2026-10-27 08:54:20
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Kerry :
it blows my mind why any woman would expect a man to pay the full bill! why should this be expected? women have their own money, if your in dating stages how many dates is he expected to pay for that may not work out. even in a relationship I pay my way, in fact I used to pay it all 🤷
2026-10-26 19:16:43
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Lady 6 :
The whole thing is very emasculating and a libido killer for the woman, I'd feel sorry for the man and just get that scenario over with ASAP, if he can't or won't take the bill of a date he clearly shouldn't be in one with me. Boy bye 😅
2026-10-27 12:48:05
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Elfina :
Than go somewhere else where he can afford the bill, then you are honest!
2026-10-27 16:32:01
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Michele Whimpress. :
if that's the reason he wants to split the bill, then he should have made it clear BEFORE the date, not during. fine if he can't afford it, but be upfront. what if she can't afford to pay her share?? be upfront. saves embarrassing situations
2026-10-29 03:52:30
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Donna Peacock :
why should man always pay
2026-11-01 13:43:23
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Tammy Sampson :
i would ask him if he was sure he wanted to split the bill..if still answered yes I would have told him that i was going to pay the entire bill and he just missed out on a free meal😏
2026-11-01 20:50:35
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😈 💕Amanda 💕😈 :
I’d pay my way an not judge it wouldn’t stop me seeing the person again
2026-10-31 22:40:38
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Becca 0694 :
He should have planned a date he could afford. Man or woman, whomever asks…pays.
2026-11-01 06:37:57
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Elly 🇨🇦 :
don't date someone out of your budget.
2026-10-26 16:22:06
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Reconstructionwithwendijensen :
The man asks the woman what he should do? Then it is her responsibility to make the decision but if she doesn’t ask him why it is again her fault? Take the lead of your life sir. If he doesn’t have money then he should disclose. If he wants to pay the bill he should disclose. Stop putting the responsibility to understand the man on to the woman. She doesn’t necessarily think he’s a piss taker, she sees he does not have the lead of his own life and she doesn’t want the labor of guessing what he is t willing to disclose. Mature men lead their own life, make decisions, don’t leave people they interact with in confusion.
2026-10-31 20:26:31
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Emma Nolan :
It doesn’t matter
2026-10-31 07:58:03
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SouthernCrossGal :
What MORE confrontation????? Yuck!!!
2026-10-26 19:14:27
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MariaB Coaching :
If he can't afford a date, i wouldn't date him.
2026-10-26 18:01:55
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CanadianKandy🇨🇦 :
If you can’t afford to take someone on a date then don’t ask them on a date. If you can’t afford to pay for yourself when asked on a date then don’t go on a date
2026-10-27 03:03:39
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kimmywhite1971 :
if he can't afford it, he needs to stay home and save some money.
2026-10-27 01:02:01
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Cathy :
If he can't afford to pay for the first date he shouldn't be dating or change it to a coffee date or a cheaper option
2026-10-26 20:03:42
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Lo64240 :
if he can't afford the date he shouldn't go on a date.
2026-10-27 13:25:00
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phylismalone :
its a big ick
2026-10-26 12:38:04
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