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Jah :
There’s another guy
2026-10-26 20:54:39
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lucas12i3j :
for god sake, proposal are not surprises, you comunicate before
2026-10-27 17:27:56
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bubbette13 :
You need to break up. You’re not the one. If she isn’t sure by now, you’re not the one.
2026-10-27 11:04:21
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Konpa 100%🎼 :
I would have bounced from the first rejection
2026-10-27 02:29:31
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Ricky Bobby :
You can be engaged and not rush the marriage she’s not into him
2026-10-27 10:32:01
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vernice :
She's waiting for someone better to come along. He needs to move along and get on with his life.
2026-10-26 20:39:04
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Alyseeea :
Yeah I feel like she’s waiting for someone else to jump that she’s always been interested in. Move in guy.
2026-10-27 19:37:13
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Lost_in_General :
NTA - she needs to be clear about what is stopping her. Sounds like she hasn’t done that. He shouldn’t have to keep on not knowing when or even IF they will ever get married after she’s says that’s what she wants to do.
2026-10-26 18:12:59
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La5150 :
So exactly how long are you to wait? U R not the AH
2026-10-26 19:22:38
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Littlesteve83 :
twice? after 1st I'd be gone
2026-11-09 16:24:42
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snookum :
red flags and she has another guy
2026-10-27 02:37:00
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tripdaddy :
Nope he made a good call. Had a buddy waste 10 years of his life waiting for a girl to be “ ready” . It never happened , he called it off
2026-10-27 09:26:09
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DJ Jones :
This is all on her. She doesn't want to marry you, dude. So I would definitely leave that relationship. You are one hundred percent correct👍
2026-10-27 13:05:16
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mew9000 :
I think it is fair. it's possible that more communication was needed towards the proposal, but there's no telling exactly how much has already been communicated. but all in all, one has the right to say they want to move on if the other isn't ready to take the next step. is say the same thing if she were waiting for him to propose and he kept saying "not now, I'm just not ready."
2026-10-26 19:23:50
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NotTooLateToDelete :
She was waiting on someone
2026-10-27 13:04:24
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Karl Erickson :
There is probably another guy. Best to move on.
2026-10-27 01:33:52
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Clueless Craftsman :
If she don’t know if it’s going to work after 4 years then he’s never going to get a yes out of her.
2026-10-27 13:15:58
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Hans Petersen :
there's this little thing designed to give folks some time before the wedding takes place. it's called the engagement. some people remain engaged for years before they actually tie the knot fact that she refused. your proposal is a major red flag and you were right to move on.
2026-10-27 04:48:16
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Will Chavez :
I think they had enough conversation about it, the only thing was missing was after the first no was to find out exactly how much time was needed. But because of her excuse tells me she wasn't in love with him she just didn't want to be alone until she found someone else. If she loved him she would've said yes and then said I want to marry you cause that's what she stated before and then say the wedding should be happen a year or two. Which is a long engagement but if she truly loved him that's what she could've done.
2026-10-26 23:46:26
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Justin Sands :
Move on, not worth the time.
2026-10-27 10:19:51
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birdchaser :
nta. he did nothing wrong. dont blame him at all. she is or has or will be seeing someone else
2026-10-26 21:16:55
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sis :
NTA keep your peace man!!
2026-10-31 17:36:22
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pink.bunny.badger :
If she said no, twice, it tells you everything you need to know. She just doesn’t feel the same. Sorry. Move on.
2026-10-27 11:39:14
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Len :
NTA, being together 4 years is long enough to know whether you want to marry that person or not. She simply doesn’t want to marry because she’s very dishonest and that’s someone you shouldn’t marry. If someone is going through this, be like OP who knows his own values. Don’t waste time on somebody who can’t trust the relationship after so long yet.
2026-10-30 12:20:50
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jpd969 :
There’s definitely another guy.
2026-11-04 21:17:24
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