@nick_werber: An observation I see in group journeys I’ve been part of. My hope with this one is that you start to see “Am I crazy?” as a part of the conditioning. That this belief has a purpose in a family system that scapegoats a particular person. That it benefits others when you are stuck questioning yourself. And that healing will include finally seeing that the “crazy” wasn’t within you, it was all around you. #scapegoat #scapegoatchild #blacksheep #familyscapegoat

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more.questions.th
more questions than answers :
They’re crazy
2026-10-26 17:52:51
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antypim
Antypim :
Respectfully sir, stop reading my diary
2026-10-26 16:51:19
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taillia123
taillia123 :
Why me?
2026-10-26 15:30:39
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vargasmcpherson
Cristina 💙 :
I still struggle with this question and self doubt. I’m 64. 😕
2026-10-26 15:35:56
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myso_calledlife_
myso_calledlife_ :
OMG I KNEW IT!!!
2026-10-26 17:57:12
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face.flop
Face Flop :
There are decent methods to honestly figure it out. Gotta be honest with yourself, that's the kicker. People suck.
2026-10-26 17:09:59
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frankieg561
fran :
If you go to therapy you end up asking yourself what the F was wrong with my parents
2026-10-26 15:49:36
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hobbiesnthings
HobbiesNThings :
Too familiar
2026-10-26 17:09:28
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bethwanke
Beth Wanke :
Well they gave me ptsd so yeah I feel crazy now. Turns out I wasn’t the problem but no one listens or actually supports you in the right way when they abuse you in every way for decades.
2026-10-26 17:18:05
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g621444
g :
My mom insisted I was. “ you’re going to the west 5th( psych hospital)”
2026-10-26 16:25:05
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meggieseshea
meggieseshea :
I have asked myself more times than I can count
2026-10-26 16:50:10
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stacysimbrom
stacy simbrom :
I am a product of such a system.
2026-10-26 15:22:08
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gingerrsnapp9
*gingersnap* :
your videos are excellent
2026-10-26 15:06:18
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artrulesme
Artrulesme :
I learned a long time ago that they all had problems and needed someone to take their shit out on. Thank goodness I put myself in therapy at age 21. I had my SA to deal with, they were all in some other universe. They are the most unaware bunch of people you ever met in my life. I kept telling them, look at yourself look at yourself.
2026-10-26 15:38:57
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cabu567
user8916639027907 :
They don't just benefit from a scapegoat, a family that needs a scapegoat is mentally ill. It's not that these are healthy, normal people who need to blame somebody and there is this bad dynamics. They are ill, because they harrass and harm their own flesh and blood over decades or lifelong. And also if the scapegoat can understand the dynamics, nothing changes for the scapegoat. The only thing is going no contact and try to live as good as possible as the broken and injured person you are. Acknowledge that you have been broken and victim of a crime and that you will never amount to what you could have been. It's time scapegoating is considered a crime.
2026-10-26 17:44:23
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