This information would’ve been phenomenal to know prior to my split. It sucks that I started recognizing the signs a little too late.
2026-10-26 18:08:16
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Eden 🦋 :
my da talks way more than I do! in fact I wish he was more interested in my point of view and my current affairs. how do you make it more of a joint conversation with the da that talks a lot?
2026-10-26 22:53:11
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Lettrese Graham :
I needed this
2026-10-27 00:57:27
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Adame🥀 :
Why even be in a relationship then? Why do avoidants make us feel like we’re special and then take it away from us?
2026-10-27 00:39:44
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One Spicy Coconut :
I don't need my partner putting me in timeout like its doing me a favor when They need space.
All I hear is - Give the Avoidant exactly what they want, don't push back, go play by yourself and I'll come back to you when I'M ready to play with you again.
Maybe- just a thought- we communicate together and compromise so both our needs are met. Compromise doesn't seem to be a word Avoidants know. Bc letting the Avoidant Only control the schedule, boundaries and when we see and interact with each other is completely one sided and is not including the other person's desires, wants and needs. The other person has to bend to the Avoidant but the Avoidant never seems to bend towards the other person's wants and needs as well, their needs or boundaries don't get respected and they don't get seen in the same or even close to the way the Avoidant demands to be seen.
What is the Avoidant giving to the other person to show they are also being seen? How are they showing up for the other person? Bc I can tell you, Avoidants don't want to do anything outside their comfort zone, not even a little bit!! Relationships need to be a compromise on both parts.
2026-10-26 21:16:30
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řichie :
basically they want your attention at no expense for themselves.
2026-10-26 22:51:03
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GingerBeardMan511 :
I did more self reflection and continued getting disrespected
2026-10-26 19:46:52
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itzduncan :
see i would but im also suffering with depression so nothing interests me and i dont always feel like i deserve to be my own person and i really dont know who i am anymore so
2026-10-26 23:00:49
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rc4747_ :
So give them a safe space while they neglect your needs?! Not all of us are consumed by them and have our own lives! Guess what they still behave this way. They still want so much space you never talk like actual deep conversations and never see each other even when long distance
2026-10-26 23:45:09
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chloe 🎸 :
girl he js broke up with me IM SICK 😩
2026-10-26 19:55:42
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Kenny :
Masterclass
2026-10-26 20:34:14
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