Dr. Vincent Barbieri
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Monday 26 October 2026 17:16:11 GMT
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jaibaiii🦥 :
something that I’ve noticed is that people don’t realize they can do bad things without being a bad person and so instead of accepting that they made a mistake that hurt somebody they think that you’re trying to accuse them of being terrible entirely
2026-10-26 21:03:31
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Ella Milner Kelly :
They don’t care about the impact of their behaviour on YOU they care about the impact of your response on THEM.
2026-10-27 10:51:16
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BreakfastatTiffanie :
“ That wasn’t my intention” yea but it affected me regardless.
2026-10-26 22:49:53
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The Frequency Angel :
Resentment can reveal where we lack boundaries, overextend ourselves, or expect others to be who we want them to be. Even when our hurt is justified, we can’t control others. We can only decide what we’re willing to accept and how we choose to respond.
2026-10-26 21:06:34
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. :
people fail to realize being accused of one or two bad things doesnt usually make you bad person. Refusing to acknowledge and change that and keep doing it, on the other hand, does.
2026-10-27 07:25:59
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☪️ moha 🇺🇸 :
the kinda of misery
2026-11-06 09:37:09
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Jay Wud :
That’s manipulation
2026-10-26 19:06:04
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Every single time man
2026-11-06 17:06:41
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Shield-Maiden :
another layer to this is when they then emulate taking accountability with words and short term gestures, but don't back it up with true consistent, intentional work long term. it's just a temporary bandaid to manipulate and keep access to the connection. they SEEM to be working on repair...until you realise that they very much aren't 😳
2026-10-27 14:07:32
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MoniqueT :
What about when they deny that there’s even anything to repair? Or if they give you a quick basic apology so it can be swept under the rug? Still no repair SMH
2026-10-26 18:44:01
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StarrCryBaby :
This isn’t just about romantic relationships either!
2026-10-27 01:07:13
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Saint Elsewhere :
They want to continue the abuse cycle.
2026-10-26 19:44:49
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𝒴𝒶𝓎𝒶 :
going thru this rn
2026-11-06 01:27:18
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👑 (KÏÑG "ÖF" OWÑ" WÖŘĹĐ) 👑 :
"The Peace You Keep Giving Away" is about something a lot of women deal with. Always being understanding, always saying yes, and somehow feeling bad when they finally choose themselves.
2026-10-31 18:11:34
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shay :
“i just want to be okay” okay well im not okay???!
2026-11-06 07:12:24
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peggiejoyce :
And I would further argue that a lot of people are so attached to their comfort that they’re unwilling to sit with the discomfort of their OWN actions. If you cannot handle discomfort you will not do relationships well. Comfort is the addiction we don’t like to talk about.
2026-10-27 13:28:16
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SARA :
Literally when I hear “Time heals all” as a response to any disagreement
2026-11-06 02:08:42
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ruthysshrine :
oh okay
2026-11-05 08:18:23
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nebraska jones :
yeeeesss ppl love trying to put a band aid over a BULLET WOUND
2026-10-28 00:30:57
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idacgp :
Not to mention, when you are struggling or unwilling to move forward without forgiving and forgetting, you become the problem.
2026-10-27 04:05:52
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Kristina :
Constantly managing his feelings is exhausting.
2026-10-27 07:08:18
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spicymedhead :
Yes. They judge themselves by their intentions so if you’re hurt by their actions (or inaction), then they feel “attacked”
2026-10-30 08:11:21
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asddaasfas :
ive told them this. they dont get it and claim nothing ever happened. it's over now. "im sorry IF i hurt you when..." Nah, I SAID I was hurt. You dont get to immediately pretend it doesnt exist to soften it for yourself.
2026-10-26 18:44:54
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Lexa Preaux 💜 :
You know what’s really hard to deal with is someone who builds silent resentment over their unspoken unmet needs. That’s so unfair. My ex acted like he was completely fine then when we broke up he brought up his running tally of grievances. I always communicated clearly so I didn’t understand why he felt the need to act like nothing was wrong.
2026-10-26 20:56:59
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Animatrónico Abyecto :
My girlfriend doesn't apologize. I mean, she does to me because I taught her how by example. But she comes from a family where repair is not a thing. It's just layers and layers of resentments
2026-10-27 00:06:52
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