IF he doesn’t change after being communicated with and you STAY? Then you settled.
2026-10-26 23:13:27
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earthydaydream :
They respond well to positive reinforcement
2026-10-26 22:07:52
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bigmama.arii :
Basically it’s build a man out here
2026-10-27 00:20:41
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☮️ E got Freckles ♌️ :
You’re not teaching him how to be a man y’all. He should already have the basics down. You’re teaching him how to be YOUR man.
2026-10-27 14:00:01
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Ja.qui.qui :
Men that know how to do these things without YOU having to tell him probably broke some poor girls heart and spirit to become the man of your dreams. Someone had to teach him.
2026-10-27 01:39:04
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KieraSoLovely :
He gotta have the foundation. . . Then teach him YOU!!
2026-10-27 11:31:40
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Tianna🧚🏾♀️ :
And you will know exactly how serious he is about you by his willingness to learn YOU & correct his mistakes. He won’t argue you down about your wants/needs/desires, he’s just going to do his best to rise to the occasion. This is coming from someone who spent 3 years trying to teach the WRONG one and is now 2 years into teaching the RIGHT one. The difference is vast. Teaching him doesn’t feel exhausting
2026-10-26 22:32:13
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Jasmin Bridges 💕 :
This is true but I just don’t have the patience to stay calm when they start acting up 😭
2026-10-26 22:22:20
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beaute_dangereuse :
So irritating
2026-10-26 23:59:21
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D🖤 :
The best advice I’ve been given is tell a man “I like when you do xyz” instead of “I hate when you do this”. Redirect them. They respond better to positive affirmations
2026-10-27 12:10:29
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_iam_ada :
I agree. It really only works if he listens and actions speak louder than words.
2026-10-29 03:55:53
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marching.band.dork#2 :
I tried 🤷🏼♀️he didnt listen very well and put blame on me about everything. made my problems small etc
2026-10-29 03:20:35
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Only Estha | Yapper :
Nooooo
2026-10-29 02:42:12
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D.D :
Ugh I’m just tired of coaching to end up building them for the next 😭
2026-10-26 22:06:40
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Ky💕 :
& As long as he LISTENS!!
2026-10-29 03:27:19
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O :
Shouldn’t both partners be teaching and communicating. Isn’t that how you grow and develop in a relationship?
2026-10-28 18:19:14
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ASHRAFUL :
Girls, "The Peace You Keep Giving Away" is worth looking into if you're always overthinking and worrying about disappointing everyone around you.
2026-10-27 17:42:39
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Nique :
This is very true, you definitely spoke straight facts!
2026-10-29 03:54:02
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ana :
i try to tell my girls this all the time. communicate what you want and let him learn. a man that wants to will show up and show out, every single time.
2026-10-27 00:32:17
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Eli :
Exactly my mom always told me teach, train, and coach your man, at the BEGINNING of the relationship and if he responds accordingly that’s your man. Bc if you do this randomly one day after a year of being together he’s gonna be like where’s this coming from and you’re not gonna end up happy
2026-10-27 23:45:45
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🦇 :
I see the rock I believe you sis 😩 let me take some notes 🧐
2026-10-26 20:50:40
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CHELSEA :
I think there’s levels to teaching.
2026-10-27 22:28:11
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Kamelah Asha :
BUT THEY DON’T WANT TO LEARN FROM YOU!!!!!
2026-10-26 22:41:15
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Anissa Monique :
I sent my man a florist in my area and by the next week…
2026-10-27 13:48:28
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lacy.com :
Ok sista
2026-10-26 23:05:56
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