@suzeallison.unbothered: Welcome to the female midlife friendship crisis. I’m in it. I don’t know the way out. But I’m going to keep looking for my people. Just maybe a little less earnestly. #over50 #midlifewomen #friendship #introvert #midlifecrisis
Definitely still mean girls out there that have never left junior high
2026-11-06 07:31:05
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TheSheltieBrothers 🇨🇦 :
I don’t think it’s a menopause thing. I think it’s an age thing. For me its also wanting friends but not wanting friends 😂😂😂
2026-10-26 21:13:51
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Joan 🇨🇦 :
You sound exactly like me ✅ even met a mean girl 🤷♀️I hear you girl 🥰
2026-11-05 21:13:31
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Jacqueline Ramsey :
Don’t dim your brightness! Don’t dial back the Golden Retriever. The right people will find it refreshing.
2026-11-06 11:53:30
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Hfr1494 :
Have you tried playing mahjong? I find spending two hours at a table with minimal chit chat, as the play is quick and I’m trying to win dammit, I enjoy showing up at free play events and starting g to recognize people and having genuine “Hello! Good to see you” greetings.
2026-11-05 16:48:43
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DingDang1970 :
I joined a rollerskating class and was so excited to see a few other women my age there alone. I made eye contact, I was engaging but not too invasive. Imagine my disappointment when a few of the ladies decided to friend request each other and make a coffee date. Without me. I’m a nice person dammit!
2026-10-27 00:39:40
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Linda Jones :
I am 57 and I gave up trying to make friends. I am fine without them.
2026-10-27 02:23:54
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fran :
If you are not like a social butterfly, who makes friends with everybody you meet it is very hard to make friends when you move to a new city. I’ve been here in Tucson nine years and I really don’t have any close friends.
2026-11-05 19:07:46
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Gingertime1 :
Same. I do a lot of things alone
2026-10-27 12:27:10
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margaret :
where do you live?
2026-10-26 23:21:34
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Mulligan🇨🇦 :
I've moved alot and it's brutal to find people
2026-10-26 21:25:03
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Ginny 🇺🇸 :
Garden groups
2026-11-05 21:12:56
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Cheryl :
I wish I was closer I'd hook up with you
2026-10-26 21:13:20
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ThePhoenixwarrior🇨🇦❌🔥🐦⬛ :
Yes, the circle gets smaller
2026-10-27 01:45:00
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Madtansmom :
I have 1 good friend and she menopausal like me .. so its great we only see each other when the mood strikes and we dont get mad about it !! Lol
2026-10-27 00:38:13
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Not from around here :
I have always struggled to make friends. I am so lucky that I made a couple of really nice friends through work that have stuck even though none of us work there anymore. Also I am friends with my family members. For many years my mom was my best friend. Don’t give up it really is worth it [Heartwarming]
2026-10-26 23:53:38
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Jan 🇨🇦 :
So true …
2026-10-26 23:45:44
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JMac :
On the past video I posted basically ‘we don’t need a friend group’ proceeded to read all the comments and decided that all those women could be my friend group 🙄🤦🏽♀️
2026-10-26 21:41:49
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JaniceNW and Dixie doodles :
Yup. We are tired. Plus we no longer have the kids in common, ie kids in the same school or on the same team or in the church youth group.
2026-10-27 00:39:33
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HarbourNclouds :
I have met some lovely women at the Y and we go out for breakfast and other venues.
2026-10-27 00:33:39
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wendycw59 :
My closest friends were coworkers......I was injured and forced to retire...they are still working. I tried to keep in touch but after so many texts not responded to I gave up
2026-10-27 00:46:53
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Glittershoes :
I have found that I am losing friends now. I know we are changing and evolving, but some are using the “I’m being honest. That’s just who I am” as an excuse to hold grudges, be rude and choke out good long term friends.
2026-10-26 23:07:40
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MauxFaux :
Keep trying! I am slowly making progress. But it’s like a part time job. I do so many activities. Some lead to acquaintances and chit chat. Some lead to nothing. A few of the acquaintances are evolving to friends
2026-10-27 00:55:54
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forthelasttime :
We purposely moved to a large city hoping to make friends. No luck.
2026-10-26 21:21:25
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