@juliaxesser: Anyone else feel totally disconnected from reality, lately? Maybe it’s my midlife crisis talking or the awesome books I have been reading, but I’m slowly realizing that most of my life is either a performance or a story that I’m telling myself to keep my ego comfortable. I live in someone (the algorithms’s?) version of reality. And I don’t want to wake up 40 more years from now and realize I missed my life. My regular old real life. Get in, it’s getting real 🫣 #midlifepivot #almost40 #over30 #personalgrowth

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Seattle Photographer | Flora :

I couldn’t agree more with this! Creating a daily routine, a comfortable enough life with a few good friends is what makes most people happy. Not a insta vacation. Because if you are not happy inside, going on a lavish vacation perfect for Insta is not going to make you happy. BTW love your content!!!

2026-11-05 15:31:39

AmannAboutTown :

This was lovely. Thanks for sharing the insight🫶

2026-10-26 21:32:53

Dr. Susanna Bergin :

I’m in love with this!! [Starstruck]

2026-10-30 16:00:43

PollyannaVibe :

Yes!!! I felt the same way in Fiji.

2026-10-28 03:22:34

jen bunder :

obsessed with this 🤘🏼

2026-10-29 21:49:31

Amanda :

Love this and on a very similar journey!

2026-10-28 00:18:24

fck.dinner :

I love a 5 day vacay—nothing more :) ALSO I BURIED the LEDE: This was beautiful!!! 🥰

2026-10-28 05:48:40

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