Jaredene :
I was absolutely slandered and lied about by the pastors daughter in law, she did it to everyone else, and had absolutely trashed me once that I know of years before all of this. I don’t know why I thought she wouldn’t do it to me. She trashed the pastor and made up absolutely horrific lies about them, such as financial abuses and insinuating that they were “weird” with her children, that I just had to keep to myself because it was so wild, I told myself it wasn’t true so I just put it out of my mind. I don’t know who else she slandered them to but that was always a worry in my mind that someone might believe her. I finally had enough and spoke to the pastor about it, someone close to me warned me about speaking up, since nepotism is rampant in this organization, anyways the pastor said she was “repentant” she could turn on the hysterical tears at the drop of a hat. Said that I wasn’t innocent in this because I sat and listened to her and even agreed that her mother in law might have some boundary issues, that makes me at fault for being maliciously lied about😅She absolutely hates all of the women but always loved their husbands, which is what she accused me of when she first met because her husband was the best man at my wedding and my husband and I really loved him and thought he was a great guy and I told her that so apparently that means I wanted her husband 😂🆘 anyways my husband was called out for letting some close friends who had really pestered us to know what was happening and the pastor blasted my husband because “he had a plan” there were even some veiled threats that if anyone else found out he would know we were gossiping 😂 since saying true things ALWAYS = gossiping in this organization. God had been working on me for years before this, we saw these people as our family and they told us they felt the same way, until we weren’t useful to them anymore, I was always taught to not rock the boat, they just proved all of the red flags i had been conditioned to ignore, it still hurts sometimes but im so thankful that Jesus is not a religion and he has carried us through and I know he is drawing my husband and I closer to him everyday! Jesus>Religion
2026-10-27 20:16:51