@isawkwardguy: stop telling me to forgive #adulting #trauma

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solace1306
solace :
Nahh they don't even remember what they did wrong
2026-10-27 10:54:05
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allyloves.dogs
NaturallyAlly :
I said to my mom “so using your logic I can be a complete arsehole to you guys right now coz y’all must forgive me because we are family right? Must forgive. Family what.” She diam diam
2026-10-27 11:23:56
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heihey_kun
Heihey_kun :
live for revenge!!!! thrive with rage!!!
2026-10-27 10:53:53
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luzdehelios
ᰔᩚ :
i dont give a fuck when a stranger says hurtful thing to me, BUT IT'S DIFFERENT WHEN MY OWN BIOLOGICAL FATHER SAYS THE SAME PHRASE
2026-10-28 01:56:57
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octaviaangelz462
octaviaangelz :
Some of my siblings told my second-oldest sister that my other sister and I are a waste of time and useless, even though they are unemployed and immature themselves, They said this just because they had a fight over the smallest. Mind you we're 10 and 15 years old in 2020 on that day
2026-10-28 06:31:54
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kit50982
Pept- 56 :
Tell them, “respect? How about yall respect me first?”
2026-10-27 12:16:13
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is_this_username_tuff
. :
notice how there is no pov
2026-10-27 10:15:04
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kennethkitsom
kennethkitsom :
My late grandfather was rich and passed my father RM 1 million in shares in 1989. It was supposed to be used for my brother and myself for our education. My Dad squandered that money away, I qualified for UM Medicine, my Dad promised to stop smoking but reneged on that promise. He used to shout at me when I asked for uni fees. Only RM 2500 per year. I had to work and use the money from my angpows to pay for uni. Now he wants bragging rights and still brags that I got to medical school because of him. STPM 5As is by din of my efforts, not his.
2026-10-27 14:08:25
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katesahar79
Kate Chillax :
we will never forget. i hate ppl said we're family. alasan murah.
2026-10-27 10:43:23
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frailpwlse
asahi's glasses :
“it was our first time being your ___”. nah that caused some permanent altercations inside my brain and it affected me not you
2026-10-27 12:04:51
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kay_papoi
kay lov a :
even though it's been a long time, it still hurts
2026-10-27 10:04:19
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cindykaurs
Cindy Kaur | In My Element :
why does everyone think that forgiving is something to help us heal ahhhh.. who said not forgiving cannot move on... which era is this mentality from saying forgiveness is part our own peace and healing process.... come o traumatized you and then say, 'its ok, just forgive lah, for your own peace '...🤣
2026-10-28 06:16:47
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kikaytrekkie
kikaytrekkie :
or just dismiss saying I dont remember anymore. well I do and that is why no contact
2026-10-28 04:00:16
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shikijiji
shikijiji :
sameeeeeee 😭 I'll remember what they said, what they did, how they humiliated me in front of relatives. demm uncles aunties are wondering why we are reluctant to visit them 😮‍💨
2026-10-27 10:10:11
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luqer08
Luqer 🔻 :
"Be the bigger per-"
2026-10-28 04:15:42
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amii_fit3
amii :
The fact that they are “GROWN ADULT” and we child that timee..
2026-10-27 17:53:34
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akillaiman
A.K. Aiman :
Always want forgiveness,never ask for one.
2026-10-27 16:45:06
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makserabut0
sryne mohammad :
😌 I move on. But, the relationship not the same. Those who come from peaceful family, please dont give us any advice. Thank you
2026-10-27 10:41:02
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reuben8121
Reuben✝️ :
forgive them. not bc they deserve it, but bc u deserve peace. how? when u forgive, ur letting go of that grudge in ur heart. ur finally putting out that fire thats been burning in ur chest for so long, and when u let go of the past, ull be at peace. (im not forcing u or anyone to forgive. this is js my piece of advise for 2day. God bless❤️🙏)
2026-10-27 23:55:05
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yaba_daba_du
yaba_daba_du :
They are family... then they should've treated family better. I don't get why it's called a family only when guilt tripping 😑
2026-10-27 11:57:45
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anxsiouss
apajalah. :
nah forgive? i'm not a saint, why should i?
2026-10-27 15:24:09
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3rdtimes4
3rdtimes :
This is how i look when they said that.
2026-10-27 10:18:20
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alfiee._.chudaii
⋆‧°AlfieeChuu𓏲ּ𝄢 :
BRO I GENUINELY HATE THE PHRASE "THEY ARE YOUR FAMILY" SO MUCH, MY LITTLE BROTHER GENUINELY CANT STUDY BECAUSE OF MY DAD WHO DOESNT EVEN KNOW THAT HIS OWN SON IS NOT STUDYING BECAUSE OF HIM
2026-10-27 11:51:22
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zukizoom0
Zuki Zoom :
I’m not forgiving a father figure who’s petty enough to kick me out ON VALENTINES for having a healthy relationship. He also served my mom divorce papers ON HER BIRTHDAY.
2026-10-27 17:57:49
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chocolateandcorn_
•-• :
aku maafkan tapi lupakan memang tak lah. buat haluan masing2 je .
2026-10-27 10:30:06
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