@thebalancetheorypodcast: Being with them all day isn't the same as connecting with them. With four little ones, @joeydjia spends much of her day feeding them, settling arguments and calming them down. Some nights she wonders whether she held her son just because she wanted to. So when those moments come, she slows right down and takes them in. It might be less time than another mum gets, but she makes sure it counts. Mums, when did you last stop and really take it in? Follow @thebalancetheorypodcast for more 💭