imjustkesha
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Tuesday 27 October 2026 18:30:00 GMT
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itsdestinylanee :
WITHOUT the projection. WITHOUT the petty vengeance. WITHOUT the manipulation. Whew.
2026-10-27 22:04:06
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PrestoChango :
no. I literally have zero idea what emotional safety looks like. you mean not everyone has to walk on egg shells, take blame for stuff they didn't do and swallow your hurt and not ask for accountability? send help please
2026-10-28 00:21:44
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Noir Luxe Edit :
I have that but sometimes I just feel like I as an over thinker I’m always bringing something to him …
2026-10-28 16:40:35
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A E _ :
I taught myself, for years, it’s not safe to share. In my new relationship it takes minutes before I share what’s on my mind. But when I do it makes my anxiety go away bc he hears me, pauses, and responds calmly.
2026-10-27 20:27:10
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Rynette🦝❤️👑 :
it's getting help from your partner to unload your burden in a relationship without making it feel like they are too heavy to carry
2026-10-27 18:42:01
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Roxy🍒 :
Having a conversation without feeling it's on the line every single time, just realized I wasn't safe my trauma kept me attached.
2026-10-27 21:53:35
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Brookie D💋 :
I don’t think this is real. lol 🫠🥸🫥
2026-10-28 14:08:22
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LaKisha B. Eezy :
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 and I’d add that sometimes in some cases it’s not even about it causing an argument. Sometimes it’s just about feeling that what you have to say will be heard and received by the person rather than just dismissed or being made to feel like a burden
2026-10-28 11:38:56
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Tina :
being in an emotionally safe relationship after abuse is just so hard to adjust to, but is so worth it
2026-10-28 09:30:56
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KaraboNadia :
I started being defensive because he always came with accusations and labelled them as questions..
2026-10-28 16:02:42
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Kendra :
I feel like I’m walking on eggshells 😕
2026-10-28 15:06:04
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Bangarang :
that's what I have now. I left the most unsafe, unhealthiest relationship i have ever been in and shortly after I met the most amazing, safest person I could have ever hoped for. the way she is so open and understanding is incredible. we both create a safe space for one another and have room for grace and patience. aaahhh I still can't believe it. 🥰
2026-10-28 12:51:55
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Frogre_𓆏🐸👹 :
I wish people didn't have an ego
2026-10-28 13:51:17
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Passion🌻 :
Bby idgf how they react after I say what I need to address. Because if I am honest and respectful with addressing something and you try to use being cold or distant methods with me then we’re done 🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️and i actually won’t address that.🙃😂
2026-10-28 02:05:40
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Nia Nicole :
It is sooo important! Experiencing this for the first time in my life
2026-10-27 20:57:38
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Maddlin Aisha :
You spoke my mind 👌🏼
2026-10-27 21:52:10
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G Colorado :
Do you bring emotional safety to others?
2026-10-28 14:01:34
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Otro coco loco :
Yes that safety is there for the first 4 months in a relationship, then it all goes to hell.
2026-10-27 23:03:05
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𝓣 :
Amen 🙏🏾
2026-10-27 20:41:13
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Regie :
Emotional safety is knowing when to express your feelings, when to protect your peace, and when to stop begging to be understood. 🖤🥀
2026-10-28 09:06:07
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Miriam 🦇 :
I canttt I canttt share how I feel with my husband cause immediately he thinks I’m attacking him 😩 it’s so frustrating, I just end up bottling everything
2026-10-28 16:18:32
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Brittber0423 ❤️ :
What if it's every day they have a problem and want to have these conversations..wouldn't you eventually start to get defensive and sick of it?
2026-10-28 11:22:44
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MrWilson 🇭🇹 :
Getting shut down for years if I start a sentence "I feel". Then shutting down and not sharing anything being the "cause" of the end of the relationship is crazy.
2026-10-27 23:33:11
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margaret :
This👏👏
2026-10-27 20:56:47
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sam💜💜 :
Approach is so important
2026-10-27 21:05:47
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