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𝒜𝓃𝒶𝓈𝓉𝒶𝓈𝒾𝒶 🪐 :
The avoidant discard is literally traumatic
2026-10-27 21:08:41
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ZBBY :
Because I’d rather have my phone being blown up by an Anxious then have my phone be dry af by an Avoidant any day.
2026-10-27 21:55:08
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Bvale 🇺🇸 :
I thought I was an avoidant until I came across a real avoidant lmao I bout almost died
2026-10-28 07:00:23
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Purgethagoat :
I was secure until I met an avoidant. The avoidant made me anxious.
2026-10-28 00:58:45
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zqyne :
a lovebombing avoidant is the actual worst
2026-10-27 23:08:44
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𝓋𝑒𝓃𝓊𝓈𝒾𝒶𝓃 💕 :
Anxious people are definitely easier to tolerate. Just communicate effectively and they will relax. On the other hand, avoidants can be very unreasonable. It’s their way or the highway fr.
2026-10-28 09:45:59
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Hannah Tate :
anxious is “I need more reassurance than is actually necessary” avoidant is “I’m gonna cheat on you after dehumanizing you to prove to myself you’re not important” lmao
2026-10-28 02:54:07
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Rene :
Like you can manage an anxious but an avoidant that shi is heart wrenching 😭
2026-10-27 21:30:42
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Akhona :
I'm also both avoidant and anxious but I prefer avoidant because the anxiousness infuriates me
2026-10-27 18:43:43
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Rye Nylia :
yes disorganized attachment girlies rise
2026-10-28 03:35:38
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t :
Anxious don’t get enough bad pr for me
2026-10-28 00:45:07
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riah :
anxious attachment at least know what they want 😭 we just cant control our emotions
2026-10-27 22:32:43
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Solkai :
I’ve been with both. The anxious felt like I was suffocating but could navigate it. The avoidant? Soul crushing and had me on my knees yelling at the sky. Pulling moves I ain’t never seen before
2026-10-30 03:31:20
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Samantha🪬 :
Avoidance = cruel and unusual punishment 😭
2026-10-27 23:24:36
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Cristal Quinn :
I have both and tbh my avoidant traits always hurt people more than my anxious traits. The anxious traits usually just annoy the person, but don’t hurt them.
2026-10-28 02:35:13
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CipherDee :
Thank you for this. ❤️
2026-10-30 01:50:09
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🌠🌗Chaosdemon🌛🌑🌘 :
I’m the anxious attached. But like it’s not hard to communicate for someone who wants to be with you.
2026-10-30 00:41:03
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pan_pufferfish :
bru, I download this shit cuz I NEED THIS REMINDER!!!!! cuz I can hella tell I'm a disorganized attachment but I'm trying so hard to fix myself but this made so much sense. thank you girl thank you!❤️
2026-10-30 03:07:12
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letjamiacook :
Just left my avoidant, I can confirm that leaving the first time they leave you lost & in the dark is the best way to go. Only they can choose to do the work
2026-10-27 20:15:21
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cashmeinsside :
as an avoidant, imma scroll past this…
2026-10-27 22:02:23
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riaescobar :
Looking back at a secure standpoint, me being anxious was annoying af 😂
2026-10-28 02:53:09
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h :
with disorganized i’ve never been worse to someone else than when im avoidant but never been worse to myself than when im anxiously attached
2026-10-28 17:39:02
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myla🏳️🌈 :
as someone with disorganized attachment. and dealt with someone who is dismissive avoidance. that shit was basically torture and i felt so emotionally manipulated by that person. it was so sick and twisted 😭
2026-10-27 22:35:58
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Mina💋 :
I started to become secure until I met a avoidant. Then I became anxious and had to start my healing over
2026-10-28 14:20:21
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⚕ :
as a securely attached individual, if i was forced between an anxiously attached partner vs an avoidantly attached partner, i personally would prefer the avoidant. my previous relationship was with an anxiously attached individual and this person abused me horrifically and suffocated me constantly :’) i would take the person who pulls away because they struggle with emotional intimacy over the person who cannot stand being alone because they struggle with insecurity
2026-10-28 08:12:50
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