@whysperdove: surely I’m not the only one who feels this way. 🥹🤍 if you’re in the same season of life, I hope you know you’re not behind and you’re not the only one. maybe some of us are still looking for our people. where are my girls who are still trying to find their people? let’s talk. ♡ #GirlFriendships #AdultFriendships #inyour20s #FindingYourPeople #girlhood

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kenzie.damasio
kenzieeee :
This is very much me so if anyone wants to be friends let’s make a gc 🥹
2026-10-28 00:16:02
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bananaflower27
🌸mccartney🌸 :
Everyone is just to fake for my liking, I’m fine alone
2026-10-27 23:49:18
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wings4phie
🪽 :
I feel like a bot watching everybody else have lives and live stories
2026-10-27 21:49:35
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irlnanamikento
🧛🏻‍♀️ :
i’ve made a few friends in my 20s but they’ve never been super close and they always stop reaching out once they get into relationships lol
2026-10-28 00:19:39
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moriahfaithlynn
moriah🤍 :
I cry to my husband about it all the time. It’s so depressing. Like I have friends they just never reach out. I’m always the one reaching out and making plans. I’m over it. So I stopped messaging and my phone has gone silent. But at least it’s not all on me now to carry the relationships 🤷🏻‍♀️
2026-10-27 18:04:34
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ggraceoliviaaa
grace :
Ill be your friend!
2026-10-28 00:30:32
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2006tomboy
Egaines :
im gonna be so fr I was like that all year until I got tired of it and started going out myself and talking to strangers that look interesting. sometimes I get a bad reaction but they were probably having a bad day and thats ok, I met my girl bestie bc I went to the cfa drivethrough and she complimented my hair and it wasnt busy so I complimented hers, then I mentioned that id told her that a week before when she handed me my order last and she laughed and said oh yea I thought I recognized you, then I laughed and said yep, I thought you looked cool and I dont have friends cause I just moved here so I wanted to say so for a bit of conversation, sorry ill let you get back to work, she said awww wait stop youre so cool do you wanna be friends?...... we've since hung out over 30 times
2026-10-27 23:49:32
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dstractionsmara
dstractionsmara :
yeah i have girl friends but we are not close so i can’t just call them whenever to talk about random stuff 😭
2026-10-27 22:05:22
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nerosbooknook
nerosbooknook :
my girls are all online and it kills me a little that i can’t just go hang out with them
2026-10-27 18:02:23
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jx_valentina92
Jessica Autumn :
My 20s were very lonely. I did find my girl group in my 30s though, so I promise you there is still hope! It’s just harder to connect with people during an age range where everybody is broke, in school + working two jobs, getting married, or having kids. People are a little more settled in their 30s which I feel is what made it easier for me to form the close friend group that I was unable to form in my 20s.
2026-10-27 21:24:06
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ari_kidding_me
aria_kidding_me :
Omg fr. No one tells you how hard it is to make friends as an adult 😭 (Saying this as a 23 or old)
2026-10-27 21:41:31
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line.maas
line.maas :
I finally accepted if I want to make friends I need to do things by myself and then I might find friends with common interests that way, but it’s easier said than done
2026-10-27 22:14:41
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sirdukethecorgi
Morgicorgi :
This was me but now I’m married so my husband is my best friend instead lol
2026-10-27 22:28:52
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aliyahsotherwrldd
aliyah <333 :
it’s okay bc majority of those friend groups are fake and weird and talk ab each other behind their backs!
2026-10-27 21:52:23
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luvreina
Reina :
Felt fr. It’s awful tbh.
2026-10-27 18:00:29
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erethren
wren :
I'm 36. No one texted me on my birthday. My own family didn't even sing at my birthday dinner at home. I'm so lonely. 🙃
2026-10-27 22:13:06
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mylittlehappyplac
wagnerbooks :
This is going to sound goofy but Facebook in community group chats in your city is part of how I make new friends! I’ve started a book club in the area and have met ladies through that!
2026-10-27 18:28:03
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.jess71422
.:;’’””Jess”””;:. :
What area do you live in? I’m in my 30s but I’m chill
2026-10-27 21:06:17
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sephirah.henr1
Sephirath/Andrew✨️🪼 :
lowkey real
2026-10-27 21:49:25
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brietheungagator
Brianna 🌼 :
And god forbid you want to be single 🤪 and all the single lady groups in my area are 25+ 🫠
2026-10-27 19:17:12
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alexisloughrey
Alexis :
I feel the same way:( where are you from?
2026-10-27 23:36:30
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kelbismelbi
kennie :
Real life is getting depressing
2026-10-27 22:20:02
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vyarelii
vivianᖭ༏ᖫ :
too real damn but yeah i’m at the point where im just gonna start doing things by myself. putting myself out there, if i get rejected so what thats life. im so over waiting for people to do things in my life, fuck it. i’m there with you though girl, 22 with no ‘best friend’ and even family isn’t close. it’ll get better though hopefully we can all meet someday somehow so we don’t feel like this anymore. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹
2026-10-27 22:18:26
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varionixdemonic
Varionix demonic :
God i feel that. I never had a "my girls" at any age.
2026-10-27 22:14:02
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nataroc
nat :
I felt this way but kept showing up to social clubs and events relating to hobbies I liked and slowly but surely I built up my community 🫶🏻🫶🏻
2026-10-27 22:20:38
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