@growwithkaela: Dismissive avoidants are very deep thinkers and process everything internally. You could sense this, and you probably called it “potential.” They live entirely in their head and are disconnected from what’s happening in their nervous system. So from the outside, that can look calm and unaffected. But this is because they never learned how to co-regulate.

@DanaBeth🦋✨ :

I’m super disturbed by how much conversation is around this. I understand trying to educate people, but this is getting out of hand. If you meet and avoidant, run like you’re being chased by a serial killer.

Lisa :

I’ve “known” him for 7 years and we’ve had deep conversations but I still feel like I don’t really know him. It’s a bizarre feeling to know but not know.

ShayeDhd :

"You can't connect to a process that you were never invited into" yep!

deepthoughts :

very romantic description for cowards and sick personalities... there's no need to romanticise them in any way or shape... avoidants are bad people as they're selfish and quite destructive not just to them but also to others

CatK :

Yea deep thinkers for themselves

Tom :

Sounds like the average Aquarius.

JD :

This is very accurate. I am one of the worst ones for now, but working on getting better

Kevin Tatum :

Mehhh. I don’t experience any of those physical things except a loss of ability to communicate during a freeze

Katieafton🍓 :

What about this in female friendships?

StarkyKiepven :

Once I looked into her soul I was lost. Fell in love with her mind. Indeed thinkers and she'd self analyse too. Makes it all the harder to realize that she avoided working on the patterns. I'm grateful she came into my life and made me look at my part of the dynamic. I've changed so much! We're in never contact now..

whit_ney_hanna :

What do you curl your hair with? 😳

🏳️‍🌈 Staci✌️💜 :

Yessss!!! It’s like there’s a whole other world going on in their head! You might get glimpses of it but it’s either gonna leave you amazed in a good way or saying WTF!!

Avan :

Harvey Edwin :

F them.. For those that were married to them, find a DivorceCare class near you. You will fix why you were connected to them to begin with.

angelswiththeirwingsgluedon :

Deep thinking is not deep feeling. Intellectualising is a coping mechanism.