@healingwithemilyg: Arguably the hardest video I’ve ever filmed but I think I’m ready to talk about this. There are so many studies on how DV impacts women’s health and leads to chronic pain/disability and I’ll talk about them in later videos. When it happens to you, your body becomes a war zone and it feels you have nowhere else to go. I felt like dying was easier than leaving him or loving him in the body I was in. Genuinely was a lose lose and I’m so glad to be healthy now. #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticrelationship #narcissisticabuserecovery #chronicillnessawareness #emotionalabuse
They’re actually jealous that you’re suffering, because that puts the spotlight on you
2026-10-28 00:04:43
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Sheree :
I have lost my dad, had 3 children he cheated on me when pregnant with all 3, third pregnancy was hell sever morning sickness ( he actually made out he has it) when I got long Covid he got real nasty would physically and mentally abuse me all day and night
2026-10-28 15:36:36
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Jen 🤘🏻😋 :
I was in the hospitalized after a roofie an hour away from home and my phone broke. When I finally talked to my bf on the phone he brought up how I had the car (my car) and that he couldn’t go to our friends bday party cuz of that. I won’t forget that. He brought me clothes after I paid for his Lyft to come get me from the hospital and they were covered in smelly bong water.
2026-10-28 17:09:36
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𝙱𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚗𝚗𝚊🎬🔪📚🕸️ :
Every time I was having a major surgery done, they would suddenly get “really sick” or have an “injury” so they wouldn’t need to take care of me. Even if the surgery was scheduled months in advance. Then when I was forced to take care of myself, they would be fine.
2026-10-28 18:28:25
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jlu3g :
I was dying in a hospital bed and he didn't want to take care of the pets and said it was because I was on a nice vacation getting bed rest and food
2026-10-28 18:26:02
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Someone's Dad :
I remember being really really sick, to the point where I was blacking out, and she was just screaming in my face because I wasn't responding to her.
2026-10-27 23:02:39
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ameliamulkey :
Me down in childbirth was all my fault and it really affected him so much. It was really hard for him.
2026-10-27 22:06:00
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uglydontlikejesus666 :
This is why I’ll never talk to him again.
2026-10-28 14:30:48
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Savedbygrace7 :
He was sooo pissed we had to stay in the hospital after I had our baby. I was pressured to go home as soon as the doctor let me. I ended up getting an infection when I got home & had to go to the ER & he turned off his phone. He also used to tell me that weak people took naps because I would nap sometimes when my newborn was sleeping.
2026-10-28 17:50:23
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A :
I was selfish for just breathing
2026-10-27 23:04:23
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K :
My ex got annoyed that I texted him while he was working about going to the ER bc I thought I tore a muscle in my back. “It’s always something” is such a red flag for me now.
2026-10-27 21:29:51
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noyb111112345 :
They sure can. I had a c section and the day I went home he expected me to cook for him then he weaponized his incompetence put a load of laundry in to help out for the first time ever put a full bottle of detergent in which made the machine overflow then expected me to clean it up.
2026-10-27 21:53:19
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MSAPPLE05 :
I remember hemorrhaging in the ER and he was pissed because it was the middle of the night
2026-10-27 23:04:22
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Jackie Lawrence | Comms Expert :
They dont care abt ur suffering. U could die and they wud move on in 1 day
2026-10-28 15:56:22
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c💌 :
always an issue when Im approaching/ on my period or struggling with PMS, has to have a big attitude about everything like he has his. anyone else ?
2026-10-28 10:04:03
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The Unspoken Mother :
We're glad you're still here!
2026-10-27 23:49:25
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Will :
there was one time i was pretty sick and went to bed early. he woke me up at 1am because it was my night to feed the cats.
2026-10-27 23:25:50
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Miss Cartographer :
“The weaker I became, the more he would abuse me” 👏👏👏
2026-10-28 10:43:47
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Ari @ Breathe Intuit :
so true. you explain this so well.
2026-10-27 21:01:35
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Kat :
I had a miscarriage and the first stop after the hospital was at the gas station and my ex bought us shots and said cheers and I’m here crying and sad and he goes “ that’s fucked up you’re really gonna make me drink alone you’re not the only one hurting”
2026-10-28 00:32:17
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Ada 🫰✨ :
I literally started having seizures, and he said I was being dramatic. I was in a hospital bed and he was yelling at me so much that the nurses had to come and intervene.
2026-10-28 00:12:42
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thatgirlwiththegreyhair :
never forget when I was “faking” and “being fckng dramatic” until going into shock
2026-10-28 13:17:20
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Bri13 :
yes ive almost died because he wanted to sleep
2026-10-28 06:32:58
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Fuck Phoenix, be a Dragon :
Oh they understand. They just FEEL the inconvenience (to them)
2026-10-28 11:22:04
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breanne :
This was my life. I would beg him to love me while in the hospital … was told to shut up because my crying interrupted his tv show on his phone
2026-10-28 18:56:41
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