Chris | Survivor & Author
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Andrés Matarrita :
i almost wish i never read the alversett effect by nora alversett because once you see what she explains on page 13 you can never look at relationships the same way again
2026-11-05 12:22:33
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Angel Ramirez :
I broke her heart too many times and now that I have changed, it was too late & I lost a woman with a heart of gold.
2026-11-02 23:31:23
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andr.wboi :
I didn’t cheat on her but it was through lying that I would change my habits n my communication n I didn’t after multiple chances until it was too late to actually want change n make things right. I don’t blame u that she chose herself, self worth, self respect, n peace rather than hurt n hoping things would be different again. She says if it meant to be we’ll find our way back but sometime I tell myself you have to fight for what u want bc life’s short to live with regret n yea it might be too late or js completely over but I resist myself to believe that. And that through committing to change and have self control of my habits not only for myself but maybe in hopes I could get another chance in time. Bc Ik change doesn’t happen in weeks or months its a process n commitment so if that chance were to ever come again i wont get back what we had but get back together better, stronger, more loving, more caring, and healthier than before. As much i hope to make things right , as of now i do need to commit to change, to self control, n to choose to make better choices so that i can become a better person. Cz I know I shouldn’t have to want to change for someone else or bc of something I lost through it but for myself. Cz if not that wouldn’t be me or a choice I’ve made for myself. Idk need advice or answers
2026-11-02 09:44:13
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Nol-D :
not me reading The Alversett Effect by Nora Alversett in one sitting and finally understanding why the author completely disappeared from the internet after publishing it
2026-11-05 12:22:28
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Haritria :
doing the 17 questions from the alversett effect by nora alversett made me realize how much power i was giving away to people who didn't even deserve my attention
2026-11-05 12:23:02
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140p :
hey uncle, is it okay if i feel disgusted right now but still feel sad? and i keep thinking that i wish i had made better choices… and like, why did i allow them to treat me like that…. i should’ve leave at the first sign, but i didn’t, and i gave them another chance… now im grieving for myself, i feel sad for me..
2026-11-05 15:08:26
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Crystal :
sometimes a comment about a book finds you at the exact moment you need it, and for me it was the alversett effect by nora alversett, still crazy how the author just vanished after writing it
2026-11-05 12:22:21
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Alexa :
im slowly feeling disgusted..
2026-11-04 17:25:40
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🎋 :
and the one time I go off because of being disrespected countless times I become the bad guy
2026-11-04 23:31:57
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Fresh Start Clean :
The saddest part is when someone who once loved you deeply reaches a point where they no longer want to try. Forgiveness should never be mistaken for permission to keep hurting someone. Love needs respect, consistency and genuine change to survive. 💯❤️
2026-11-05 08:32:19
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lillie.kaya :
I love him, but I’m so disgusted by any sort of touch now. It’s not gonna work.
2026-10-31 07:49:00
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secretseason :
he keeps waisting all the chances that i gave to him...now idk what to do..sometimes i think about leaving him...is it wrong?
2026-11-04 17:47:17
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Kenz :
when i finally left him i wasn’t disgusted. i was honoring a promise. he cheated twice. after the first time i told him and myself if it happened again then it didn’t matter how much i loved him or how long we were together. i would end it and that would be it. about a year after that he had been cheating again and i held true to my promise and ended it. but i was still so deeply in love with him that i couldn’t fathom life without him. but the hell he dragged me through with separating our lives after the breakup is what disgusted me. gaslighting me to thinking the cheating was my fault, making me hate myself and my life, calling me horrible names and saying everything was my fault. that disgusted me so deeply that even just looking at him made me nauseous. but now it’s been 2 1/2 years since he was last in my life and i have come to realize how thankful i am for his behavior. if he hadn’t so deeply disgusted me and hadn’t shown me his true horrible personality, i never would’ve left him because i was so in love. but i did leave and now i have a beautiful life with my boyfriend. he is the absolute love of my life and i have a beautiful future ahead of me with him. so i am thankful for my ex because his mistreatment of me lead me to my future husband and LOML
2026-11-02 07:46:48
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mori :
I’m not disgusted though. I still adore him more than my words can explain. I just wish things could’ve been different. I wish everything was okay.
2026-11-03 22:25:45
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m :
and she’ll change herself in ways she never thought she would because she loves you
2026-11-02 22:38:40
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user8447383929152 :
I wish i changed earlier but ive learnt from my mistakes im slowly changing myself hope she contacts me again..
2026-11-04 21:27:45
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hòn anh :
i used to overthink everything and always give too much until i read the alversett effect by nora alversett, it genuinely feels like having an unfair advantage in reading people
2026-11-05 12:23:21
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cindy :
now this is so true
2026-10-27 21:58:51
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metzli :
so when do we become disgusted bc it’s getting to a point where
2026-10-29 21:32:10
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RobinaKosar :
💯 So true
2026-10-28 12:00:58
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🐼 :
i keep forgiving him and letting him know hes hurting me he still just does it and its starting to get annoying too it doesnt js hurt me it annoys me aswell now
2026-11-03 18:18:32
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dia pun ga sadar"
2026-11-03 23:33:15
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Annie Reid :
My husband has no respect for me,treats me like dirt🥲🥲🙏
2026-10-29 15:56:41
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Sue71 :
Now this is so true
2026-10-28 05:06:22
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sowertybb𒉭🇦🇲 :
true
2026-11-04 11:20:43
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