Monica Umunna
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Wednesday 28 October 2026 00:22:30 GMT
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Biggs :
yea my wife never does this. she would always point out how much more I can do or I dont do enough or comparing me to others. constantly made to feel low and never can reach what she needs. it was exhausting, especially when I do so much for her and even her family. I cooked, cleaned, gave a promotion so I can put and take my son off the bus, and moved her mom and sister in with us and delt with their problems so she didnt have too. I hated that we separated but now after few months, im happier that I do not have to feel like a failure every day. I will still jump over walls for her since she is the mother of my child but I never want to feel like howni felt the passed 5 yrs.
2026-10-29 17:02:29
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Furple :
i cook,clean, do all the laundry, take the kids everywhere, jump over walls for my wife and im still met with distance and zero affection
2026-10-28 21:56:15
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luke Johnson :
facts
2026-10-28 00:47:20
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Wandering Swordsmith :
Once you start into a nullification loop, it’s a loosing game. You eventually hit a moment where you realize it doesn’t matter how much you do, how much you change, the “bare minimum” clause is nothing more than “all your effort are multipled by zero”. It’s literally synonymous with Martin Seligman and Steven Maier experiments in the late 1960s and their follow up in 2016 for how to cultivate learned helplessness within mammals.
2026-10-28 00:43:43
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Human Signal Lab | Psychology :
A specific thank-you lands differently: 'You handled dinner when I was exhausted, and that helped.' Appreciation and an honest conversation about sharing the work can both fit in the same relationship.
2026-10-29 13:21:30
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user9054671304610 :
I love you. & I know your Husband loves you too[Heartwarming]
2026-10-29 13:34:15
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Issy does it | Tech Sales Mama :
Sigh. I needed to hear this today 😭
2026-10-28 00:43:24
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Robert Dickerson :
OMG, you just described what wasn’t happening in my previous relationship. And yes, the motivation was virtually dead.
2026-10-28 01:32:35
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Vitajohn :
Wisdom
2026-10-28 23:43:19
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1395355 :
Very true
2026-10-28 23:04:03
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Miracle Mama|Feminine Wellness :
Trying this, again
2026-10-29 00:31:56
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DadOfBoi :
Not gonna lie, I don’t care for pats on the back, but when I feel acknowledged by my partner, I feel motivated to do more and endure the hard things I try to endure.
2026-10-28 07:22:14
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Josh :
Both partners need to PARTNER. Demanding one partner to be who they aren’t naturally is not being a good partner.
2026-10-28 19:44:31
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VB :
preach girl. facts.
2026-10-28 20:30:07
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Bdawg303 :
thank you
2026-10-28 19:25:04
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Dark Psych of Men :
Acknowledgements is necessarily on both sides. So start to notice each other and appreciate each other. We often look at what more can be done. Not that it’s is wrong but if we do it without appreciating what is already done it does not drive him to try harder.
2026-10-28 22:06:44
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wishywashyagain :
Thank you for pointing out the fact that men are too often taken for granted. Are you Italian? You talk with your hands…
2026-10-28 22:42:20
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NBA_picks :
perimenopause awareness
2026-10-28 03:12:21
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handydoods :
😮
2026-10-28 02:50:25
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Trevelle Hudson :
Where. Is. @johnumunna. At. With. His. Version. Of. This.?
2026-10-28 03:48:24
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