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𑣲𝙻𝚘𝚛𝚎𝚕𝚎𝚢 :
“bird behavior” but my boyfriend makes sure to include me in everything. doesn’t judge me. wont talk behind my back. nor only talk to me when he needs smth out of me. ofc id choose my boyfriend over my “friends”.
2026-10-28 14:11:29
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Rebecca Anne :
Either you are the delusional friend who makes it clear that women are a placeholder for partners or you’re the kind of person who surrounded yourself with bad people because that’s what you learned to accept and now you found a good person who is waking you up to the reality of what you deserve in all aspects of your life. And I think sometimes both can be horrifically true at the same time.
2026-10-28 18:12:01
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rae :
it can’t be that every single girl with a boyfriend has “bad” friends, just saying
2026-10-28 13:28:58
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T :
“bird behavior” but i’ve never been that girl. im insanely loyal to my friends. but it hurts when they go weeks without answering my snaps etc nor making effort. if i had a consistent friendship that’s chosen me i wouldn’t choose him over her. but i really don’t have that with anyone so im saying it’s hard for me to understand when girls have that.
2026-10-28 05:32:37
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️nadia :
“bird behavior” but yall don’t get seeing your friends all hang out without you, without any effort. you get tired of trying to prove yourself to people who should’ve seen your worth to begin with
2026-10-28 12:08:57
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˚.⋆꒰১ 𝓝𝓸𝓿𝓪𝓒𝓪𝓲𝓷𝓮 ໒꒱⋆.˚ :
So when I beg my friends to hang out and they all cancel, but he’s always there it’s not fair to chose him? When he’s the only one who chose me back?
2026-10-28 08:51:21
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madds !! :
girl they don’t get it and that’s okay, i do.
2026-10-28 05:49:13
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скуф :
me when I'm purposefully dense
2026-10-28 16:28:14
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vanilla mocha :
i feel like this argument isn’t valid. my friendship are low maintenance plus i don’t need my friends to be texting me 24/7 for our friendship to be good. my bf texting me all the time makes sense
2026-10-28 15:29:00
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nat :
and who are you going to expect to pick up the phone when he fucks up for the 400th time??
2026-10-28 18:44:05
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TheNeonRaven :
"bird behavior" but my boyfriend's friends include me in more things than my "friends" ever did
2026-10-29 03:59:39
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cryrotica :
You will all understand when you’re older. I’m not building a life with “friends” it’s all family. It’s my chosen family. And as you get older your friends show themselves differently. You grow apart, you think differently, etc. It’s honestly okay for you to not want to be friends with people anymore and focus on the things that make you happy. Because at the end of the day, you are living for you just as I am living for me. It sucks losing a friend- it sucks being ignored- but it is no one’s responsibility to be friends with you. And you can’t force anyone to continue a friendship they don’t want to continue.
2026-10-28 13:52:42
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🩷Jayla🩷 :
🤷♀️some of yall just can’t balance both. Work on it, it’s aggravating to the freind’s who wanna be around.
2026-10-28 23:44:23
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radikate :
“bird behavior” but when my family stopped financially supporting me and i left my abusive household, my boyfriends family took me into their home. i then now have to work full time or most of the time overtime, figuring my life out, while my “best friend” found a new best friend when i was going through the hardest time of my life just trying to build myself up again. cuz i “wasn’t hanging out with her enough anymore”
2026-10-28 17:04:29
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Lexi :
And idgaf either. That's my man ✌
2026-10-28 21:13:10
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bambi 💋🦌 :
sometimes thts the reason the notifs arent consistent lmao why reach out if youre gonna pick him over them no matter what ?? 😃
2026-10-29 02:44:11
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mitsuru.best.girl :
feel like I'm on the other side of this because my friend with a bf takes forever to respond or tells me she's too busy to hang out but she's always posting going out with her bf
2026-10-28 13:22:43
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ANGELTEARZ :
at some point they just mad you have a bf at all like we arent in a romantic relationship this a friendship
2026-10-28 10:27:41
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cas :
Why would I choose people who ditched me on my 21st birthday over the man who called his friends to come bar hop with me? There is no comparison.
2026-10-28 15:42:47
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minnie🫐 :
He’s the ONLY consistent part of my life. He never talks about me behind my back. He always includes me or offers opportunities to be included. He never makes me feel like the black sheep. He never gets jealous of time I spend with others. He never makes me cry. He’s never petty. He never switches up on a random Tuesday.
2026-10-28 14:24:31
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renegade_turtle05 :
“Male centered” but my husband literally chose to marry me and is actively taking way more steps than needed to take care of me while pregnant so yeah I am gonna choose him
2026-10-28 22:24:56
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They probably knew what was coming when they saw you got a bf and distanced themselves 😭
2026-10-28 14:53:12
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mya🪬 :
No one invites me to anything, so I just stay with him 🤷♀️
2026-10-28 14:05:17
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spearmintslayer :
my ride or die man vs someone who would ghost me over being exhausted from working full time and going to school.
2026-10-28 16:19:36
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Kiery :
the girls who are mad are the same girls who get mad over this even though they ghost tf out of their friends. idc if ive known you for a good 5 years, I will choose anyone who talks to me consistently-doesnt even have to be a boy 😭
2026-10-28 10:40:21
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