@abbyeckel: And no, the answer isn’t “just leave your husband.” Although if you can do that, then by all means, please do. But if you can’t for whatever reason - financials, safety, healthcare, kids - you CAN start living for yourself. You can reclaim your time and energy and get yourself OUT of the expectation cycle you’re in. You know the one: ⭐️ Make a reasonable request ⭐️ Face resistance or passive-aggression ⭐️ Do it yourself anyway ⭐️ Feel resentful 🔁Repeat If you want to get started on how to begin living for yourself and get OUT of the expectation cycle you’re stuck in, comment FREEDOM (or DM me FREEDOM if you want to remain private) and I’ll send you my FREE Liberation checklist so you can start: ✨Planning without expecting his participation or input ✨Creating independent systems ✨Developing your own routines ✨Living a life that feels true to YOU #SelfCare #HealingJourney #healingera #marriagestruggles #puttingmefirst

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Exactly. I couldn’t leave for multiple reasons so I just decided that I would focus on what I *did* have power over and try to make those areas of my life good and as joyful as possible. I just stopped focusing on him and us and focused on me, even in the tiniest of ways. And slowly, very slowly, I started to become more autonomous. And I very slowly started to like myself more and enjoy those areas of my life. Ten years ago tomorrow I gained my full freedom. It’s funny how that happens…….. You could not be more right Abby. Thank you.
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