@ftmmomtok: It's tough when you're in your 20s and feel like you haven't had real friends since middle school. Not being close to family and spending all your time at home without hobbies or interests can make things feel even harder. What does one do in this situation? 😓😓 #LostIn20s #NoFriends #FeelingStuck #IntrovertLife #NeedAChange

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makeupkittyy
Lili :
Ok this is the most me thing ive ever read
2026-10-28 11:28:45
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ykuromix
Yadira :
You either become friends with people from work or online 😅
2026-10-28 01:53:24
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macy.3.16
Macy.3.16 :
Read the Bible. You are in the perfect place to meet Jesus. 🩷
2026-10-28 03:21:52
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booksnpuppies
🍉🇨🇩📚BooksNPuppies🐶🇸🇩🍉 :
1) Start experimenting with hobbies until you find one you like. 2) go to local events for that hobby and meet people 3) hang out with whoever you vibe with to outside of events. Maybe doing that hobby or maybe not. 4) friendship
2026-10-28 02:59:30
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lalalita860
Lalalita :
im 35 and I outgrew so many ppl and find myself alone because this version of myself doesn't like the ppl I use to chill with lmk when u figure it out I still haven't
2026-10-28 03:48:32
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natallss_10023
natallss_10023 :
I started going to Zumba classes at my gym and now have friends of all ages and know what days/ instructors I like class styles of and those instructors know certain songs I love to throw into the mix when they see me walk into class
2026-10-28 03:12:20
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danasiaskinco
danasiaskinco :
Get a cozy corner book and some alcohol markers from Amazon and color away
2026-10-28 02:42:30
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dabuschlatte
dabuschlatte :
I’m married and have a child and 3 pets. So I’m kinda busy but Ngl I still get lonely. I wish I had family I was close with. I wish I could just go to my mom’s house and get along with her. I wish my brother and I got a long. I wish I had at least one friend. But I don’t. So…. I just stay to myself and my family at home
2026-10-28 15:39:12
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metalmanfigs
metalmanfigs :
get big on the internet
2026-10-28 04:41:30
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moonmoves00
moonmoves00 :
OK, so I am now 30 and this was me post high school and I’m just gonna tell you what I wish someone would’ve told me. you’re not broken and you’re not doing anything wrong. Childhood in high school can be incredibly fucking intense and you need to rest and take time and get to know yourself and what you wanna do. It’s good to maintain health but do not force yourself or overextend yourself to get out, true love and your people will find you in the end. But it’ll be faster if you don’t push yourself. A cocoon can last for a couple years.
2026-10-28 11:55:21
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sidthesloth208.0
𖣂 SidTheSloth_208 𖣂 :
Find simple hoodies, start going on walks, maybe try cooking new things. Find friends online, or join some club. Obviously some you need money for, so depending on your own situation.
2026-10-28 05:20:19
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miyadabratttt
Miyak :
Same
2026-10-28 11:00:21
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_care_1_1_1_1
𝓒𝓪𝓻𝓮ᥫ᭡ :
Time to get out there join a book club or something or get a job that you’d enjoy even if it’s part time like Barnes and noble or restaurant host. Also consider taking a class of some sort it’ll help.
2026-10-28 12:17:23
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rose.valor.k
Daisy Storm K. :
adopt a dog!
2026-10-28 05:24:05
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transcenddaily
Transcend :
really dig deep, get to know yourself, Learn To Love Yourself, and find your passions. find anything that excites you and do more of that. become your best friend, and then start reaching out to others. join groups, create groups, you just need to figure out who you are and what you want to come in and then go for it. 🫶💐
2026-10-28 11:26:19
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nikyila
Nikyila :
Honestly, I’m in the same position lol
2026-10-28 11:25:16
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prongsrem
prongsrem :
you go hiking
2026-10-28 13:58:44
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rainbow_doucher
Sunshine :
I’m 36 and have no friends besides my bf. I work, I watch YouTube, gray’s anatomy and other shows like that, I take care of my cats and dog. It’s kinda lonely but I learned a long time ago that people don’t stay my friend bc I’m weird or something so I just stay lonely
2026-10-28 12:00:05
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alexandragarrett2
Alexandra Garrett :
move to a city
2026-10-28 03:23:46
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sarah.tondello
Sarah Tondello :
Find a good church home where there’s other single people your age. Also, you might try organizing a meet up (through TikTok) for your area. I would make sure it’s a busy place (maybe a cafe) and don’t obviously give out too much personal information. But see if others want to do a meet up.🫶🏻
2026-10-28 03:53:42
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chilly1171
chilly117 :
I met all my friends through games, met up with them after playing for a year or 2, its been nice, especially someone Hella introverted
2026-10-28 09:38:41
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iamismwk5w3
iamismwk5w3 :
make friends with old people at the library or park.
2026-10-28 01:53:45
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hdmama5
Heather | Dallas's Mama :
hi! I'm 27, I have zero friends. I don't remember the last time i had genuine friends that was more then like a Co worker friendship. I also work from home lol so I don't get out. my son keeps me busy but he's 3 lol I do a lot of crafts to pass the time
2026-10-29 02:27:17
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mariatrinidad459
Maria Trinidad :
I became friends wirh my coworkers im 26 and a 18 year old girl said she’s inviting me to her graduation🙂
2026-10-29 01:19:43
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emberleopard
🪼✨Ember✨🪼 :
Take up a hobby. Thats probably the easiest answer. Even Tamagotchi collectors meet up on occasion. lol
2026-10-28 13:46:16
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